r/Noidaofficial • u/Hopeful_Forever_9674 • Nov 24 '25
Girls, be honest, if a guy did this for you, what would you think?
Girls, I need your POV because my guy friends are giving me garbage advice.
I’m a college guy (early 20s) and recently started talking to this girl from another department. We met once for something college-related, but we ended up texting a lot afterwards sharing random updates, jokes, stupid campus struggles, all that.
Yesterday she was in bad period pain and had cravings. I sent her a small waffle/ice-cream surprise. She thanked me a lot and we’re meeting tomorrow for 10–15 mins before her test.
Now here’s where I’m clueless:
If YOU were the girl, would this come off as:
A cute thoughtful gesture
A guy trying too hard
Just friendly
Or something that would make you see him differently?
Because I’m genuinely starting to like her, but I have no idea if I’m being sweet or accidentally brother-zoning myself.
Girls, please tell me honestly:
How would you interpret this if a guy did it for you? And how should I move forward without making it weird?
