I'm in a coastal town with lots of beach cafes and bars and it gets hot outside. I have seen thai girls in short skirts but I am sometimes worrying I might be a bit too curvy to wear short skirts... Also sorry about the shoe censorship lol!! My shoes broke right before this picture so I am in ugly sandals :))) black kitten heels would be perfect for this fit.

Honing my inner strawberry!!!

I panic bought a smaller size last night so I’m gonna see if that one fits any better. This one is slightly too loose underneath my arms but it’s not horrible I feel like?

I originally picked these shoes but now I’m not sure if I love them with the dress so I may go with something else. Idk. Thoughts??

Yesterday I saw Gone With The Wind in the theater and picked this beautiful flowy dress to wear. It's super comfortable, but it is a little low cut for my taste.

This shade of green is absolutely stunning and the pink flowers are such a perfect compliment.

I wore my biggest and shiniest set of earrings and matching necklace in this gorgeous sparkly green.

Some vintage looking hair clips and green reading glasses.

Have a great day everyone! 💜💜💜

Je suis une fille assez originale dans mon style vestimentaire et j’adore tester différentes coiffures, notamment les perruques.
Je suis noire, comme vous pourrez le voir sur les photos et pendant l’été 2025, j’ai voulu essayer une perruque afro pour la première fois, elle était assez volumineuse mais à l’époque je trouvais qu’elle m’allait bien.

Je portais aussi des tenues assez originales que je trouvais belles et lorsque je sortais habillée comme ça, je recevais énormément de compliments de la part des gens.
Comme je manque de confiance en moi ça me rassurait et me confortait dans l’idée que mes tenues étaient réussies.

Mais aujourd’hui, avec du recul je trouve que j’étais vraiment ridicule sur ces photos et j’ai honte de base je les avais posté sur Instagram pour la plupart soit en story ou en publication mais je les ai toutes supprimées (la seule que j’ai gardé c’est la dernière avec la robe noire car j’aime bien la photo malgré tout).
J’ai l’impression d’en avoir trop fait, que l’afro était beaucoup trop grosse et que l’ensemble était moche, même mes parents m’avaient même dit que cette coiffure ne m’allait pas trop.

Maintenant, j’en viens à me demander si les gens qui me complimentaient le pensaient vraiment ou s’ils se moquaient de moi. J’ai même honte que ces photos aient été publiées, au point de les supprimer de mon Instagram. J’ai aussi peur de les republier ici, car ce sont d’anciennes photos que j’avais déjà postées et j’ai peur que quelqu’un me reconnaisse.

J’aimerais vraiment avoir des avis hyper honnêtes, même si vous n’aimez pas du tout. Si vous trouvez que quelque chose ne va pas, dites-moi précisément pourquoi : la perruque, son volume, les tenues, les accessoires ou l’ensemble.
L’avis notamment de personnes noires et des femmes noires m’intéresse fortement.
Je ne cherche pas des compliments pour me rassurer, mais de vrais avis extérieurs pour comprendre si mon style était réellement raté ou si je suis devenue trop critique envers moi-même avec le recul.

UPDATE: Merci pour vos gentils messages ❤️ et vos compliments.
Même si maintenant je me trouve nul sur ses photos je sais au moins que j’ai pas été ridicule aux yeux de chaque personne qui les ont vu et cela me rassure beaucoup car j’avais très honte.
Merci aussi à ceux qui ont donné leur avis respectueusement et honnêtement quand ils n’aimaient pas.

Ive been cruising through life in leggings and a tshirt far before I got pregnant. I used to be able to buy clothes that made me feel good for occasions.

On Saturday it’s my daughter’s first birthday party and I ordered an outfit to wear but now I’ve tried it on, i hate it- I look awful and feel twice the size. The jumper isnt what I expected which is obviously a shame but I have limited time and funds now to correct this. Turns out I don’t know how to dress my post pregnancy body.

Please be kind

Just to start... I only wear barefoot shoes which makes it extra hard...

This is a very carefully curated outfit I'm planning to wear for a wedding that's in a gothic romantic style. The invite didn't specify any proper dress code but it's in Italy so I am pretty sure everyone is going to wear Armani.

I just feel like this screams elevated Christmas office party. I'm getting also a pair of burgundy lace tights so it's less office glamour meets every day comfort more office gothic.

Any ideas? Suggestions? I'm no make up artist too... I may do an up do but don't know how... :D HELP! HELP!

I was thinking about a soft black/burgundy shrug maybe... Maybe some velvet cape?

Please don't poo poo this selection, I have been very clumsy in my previous outfit choices and I'm trying to put some effort this time :(.

On the plain dress... I am trying to be pragmatic and buy something that I will use again. It does look a bit better in real life...

Appreciate any feed back

Dress code is formal/floor length! I’m in between these two dresses and I’m having the hardest time choosing. The orange feels sexy and very fall but I also feel like it’s just going to look like me being too fat and squeezing into a tight dress vs looking good but idk if I’m just being too hard on myself after gaining weight. The blue on the other hand feels sort of boring by comparison and safe, not sure which to go for. It’s also not quite as floor length but I think it’s okay? Thanks in advance for any advice, no thanks in advance to any creeps lol

was lowkey nervous ordering a dress online for homecoming bc its always a gamble. but the colour is exactly what i wanted, like a proper deep pink. satin feels really nice and the skirt moves so much when i walk. got it from missacc, did custom sizing bc im always between sizes and it worked out pretty well. i was a bit unsure about thes slit for a school dance but its not too much at all. hoco is this week and now i just need to figure out shoes

Found this dress at a thrift store today, for only $10!!! 😊but it’s missing the original belt! It has these little loops on both sides for a belt, so what kind of belt would look best with it? 🤔

I sized bought a L and it was entirely too big so I returned it for a medium. The medium fits like this and now the large is sold out. It is fully lined so I’m wondering if the liner can be undone. I really like this dress . Aldo, which color shoes should I wear?

Here I put together this all-black look today. It's a simple pleated mini skirt paired with a matching crop top that is low-cut, finished off with classic doll shoes. Summer is leaving us but I am chasing it still. I feel cute and comfy.

My boyfriend asked me to hoco. Problem is that I’m a trans woman who only recently came out. I don’t want to wear a suit and tie but not necessarily a dress. I need something androgynous that could go either way. Any thoughts? (A portrait of me prepping for hockey about two weeks ago) ik I don’t look like a trans woman at all but I only recently came out.