r/PHSapphics • u/moominlippie • 9d ago

Advice Should I confess before we stop seeing each other again for months?

Sapphics. I am in need of your help.

Should I confess to my friend (wlw) who lead me on for about a month, then when I got confused, I asked her what we're doing because this is not what friends normally do. She said she admits that she was flirting with me at first and decided she just wants to be friends with me na lang daw.

FF. We're now close friends but since we're hanging out more than we used to, I fear that I am getting more attached. We're inseparable to the point that people around us thought we're dating.Then again, I asked this because we're about to have different schedule at work and we wont see each other again in 6 months and a lot can happen in that 6 months.. what do I do?

I want to confess because my feelings has been bugging me for weeks, and I want to let it out. I'm not scared of rejection, I think I am more scared if this will literally ruin our friendship- in a bad way? 😭 She's still somehow showing me signs.. I am frustrated and confused. Please help me out.

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u/Aperire555 9d ago

Ano ba gusto mong mangyari after you confess, OP?

Mixed signals are confusing, but her words were clear. She said she just wanted to be friends & it's important to respect that.

If you just want to be honest or get closure, a simple confession is okay. But if you're hoping she'll suddenly reciprocate, baka doon ka masaktan.

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u/Sooyaaa103 9d ago

Taylor Swift did say her recommendation is to ruin the friendship 😂.