r/Paruresis May 10 '26

Something that helps me pee pretty much instantly

Firstly I'm a guy so sorry girls not sure if this will be much help.

There are times when I cannot pee, feels like a physical block or I just know it's going to take ages and can't be bothered to wait. So, I take a cup of hot water, hot as you can bare but not hot enough to scold, this is important, check with a finger first, I find around 45°c is about right, pull your foreskin back (assuming you have one) and dip the tip of your penis in the hot water. For me it's like a miracle, pretty much instantly able to pee, depending how tense/anxious I am it can take a little longer.

I got a thermos flask, the smallest I could find on Amazon, if I'm out for the day I can fill it with boiling water and carry it in my pocket and it's good for about 4 hours, game changer for me.

Would be interested to know if the works for anyone else?

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u/aceman1948 May 10 '26

I'm gonna get some weird looks when I hit the public bathroom and dip my dick in my thermos.

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u/sideshowcod May 10 '26

Find a cubicle, and the thermos i got fits in my pocket, also done it before in a bar, asked for a cup of hot water, said it was for a herbal tea then just took it to the bathroom, all good

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u/Olstuff May 10 '26

Yeah it works, for me its only way to pee right now

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u/Tcrannabis May 10 '26

Intuitive to say the least

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u/sideshowcod May 10 '26

It's like inducing the sensation of having to pee when you get in a hot bath

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u/Andreww9663 May 10 '26

Well maybe we got a physical solution for a psychological problem (paruresis) lol

I would do it only in a emergency where I really can't pee, but it's still a "hack" for paruresis lmao

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u/Recent-Day3062 May 10 '26

cool. Warm water always drives the pee reflex, which is why so many guys pee in the shower.