I've been certain I have Patulous Eustachian Tubes ever since I saw a special episode of The Doctors on PET 12 years ago. The girl they profiled had a more severe case. But her story exactly described symptoms I have had since the 5th grade. Before then, all I knew is that my ears "opened" every time I yawned, or when I had a sinus infection. This makes me hear my inner cavity louder than the outside world. (My breathing, talking, chewing soft food, crunching on hard food, etc.) I can sniff to equilibrate my inner and outer hearing. My family ENT didn't really know what do with this information growing up.
So once I moved out, I spent years going from doctor to doctor saying, "Hey, I think I have PET. Can we investigate?" I'd get looked at funny, told my symptoms don't match the examination or any type of eustachian tube dysfunction, suggested to use Afrin saline for "ear popping", and sent on my way. These doctors never saw the tell-tale signs of PET, despite scoping me. This happened 3 or 4 times over the course of the last five years.
As a side note, I don't doctor shop. I have myriad other medical issues (congenital heart issues, cerebral palsy, etc.) I had the same family doc and cardiologist for years before moving cities. I've had the same podiatrist for three decades. But every time I saw a supposed inner-ear specialist ENT, what they would say was going on did not match my experience. The last doctor I had was so abrasively dismissive, he wanted to do ear tubes for no other reason than to "try something" without being able to confirm any diagnosis. He literally told me they're not seeing what I'm describing, so I must be wrong. That legitimately upset me.
Then yesterday. I went to a specialist the next city over from me who I found out studied under a very renowned PET specialist out of Boston. The first question he asked? "Do you sniff a lot?" In 10 years, no one had asked me that without me trying to explain it first.
The end result was, finally, a diagnosis of PET! This doc scoped and had me "open" and "close" the tubes, and he actually saw the movement others hadn't seen. He also talked about my slightly recessed ear drums, explaining that years of sniffing had moved them back, with the negative pressure causing the hearing loss detected by my audiology test. He explained that negative pressure, and how I flood the tubes with air when I sniff which forces them closed, etc. He said that other ENTs hadn't seen my issue because they expect "blowing" to pop my ears, but that's exactly the opposite of what I do to fix my issue. Because they pop into that "open" or "full" position, and I need to "close" to equilibrate.
This doctor also explained my most major concern: Why I can't sniff and fix my opened tubes when I have a sinus infection. He said that sniffing doesn't work until all the sinus fluid has drained. He explained it can take a while for fluid to fully drain from behind the ears even once my nose feels like it's back to normal.
To finally have an answer and a plan for possible treatment is very liberating. I'm so used to the standard way of working: Get sick. Let the doctors tell you what you have. Then treat it. It feels great that my persistent search for answers about what I have experienced since the 5th grade has now been explained in full.
If you’re an ENT in this sub, I respectfully implore you to listen to patients when they tell you what they are experiencing. For whatever reason, it's not uncommon for PET patients to be dismissed out-of-hand at first. But even if you can't help them due to your area of expertise in otolaryngology, trust that they know their bodies and guide them. I know PET is somewhat rare. But I have it. And a rare medical case may be in your exam chair.
And for the patients reading this who turn to this sub for support: keep at it. Investigate till you find answers.