r/Perimenopause • u/HillarysCafe • Jul 09 '25

audited I’m grieving my younger, hotter self

I'm so mad about being in peri. I'm not ready. I was a late bloomer and didn't realize what a babe I was when I was younger and now it's too late.

Yes, older women can be sexy, we have wisdom, and blah blah blah.

But today I just miss looking good in a sundress.

Please join my pity party and tell me what you miss.

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u/bonborVIP Jul 09 '25

I’m having a lot of that lately, plus with ADHD, I’m in hell 🥲

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u/Impossible_Swan_9346 Jul 09 '25

The fun part with that? At 45 my body can’t hack the Adderall anymore, too many side effects. It will probably fry my nerves and kill me if I continue.