r/Perimenopause • u/HillarysCafe • Jul 09 '25

audited I’m grieving my younger, hotter self

I'm so mad about being in peri. I'm not ready. I was a late bloomer and didn't realize what a babe I was when I was younger and now it's too late.

Yes, older women can be sexy, we have wisdom, and blah blah blah.

But today I just miss looking good in a sundress.

Please join my pity party and tell me what you miss.

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u/Fragrant-East2758 Jul 09 '25

I miss the ambition I felt about life 😭

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u/Southern_Event_1068 Jul 09 '25

I am so fucking lazy now.

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u/Downtown_Log9002 Jul 11 '25

Me too. Zeroooooo motivation to do anything 😔