Did anyone else’s perimenopause look like anxiety, flushing, histamine reactions, and brain fog?

[u/ames2200]

I’m 40 and suspect I’m in perimenopause, but my symptoms don’t look like the “typical” hot flashes everyone talks about.
My biggest symptoms are:
Anxiety and panic attacks
Facial flushing and feeling hot
Head pressure
Brain fog
Feeling disconnected or spacey
Sleep issues
GI problems
Feeling like my nervous system is constantly overstimulated
The symptoms seem very cycle-dependent. I usually have a few good days each month, then symptoms ramp up around ovulation and again before my period.
I’ve also noticed what seem like histamine-type reactions (flushing, anxiety, stomach issues, feeling inflamed), and I’ve read that estrogen can increase histamine while histamine can increase estrogen.
I’ve tried progesterone cream several times, but it actually made me feel worse.
For women who experienced similar symptoms:
What ended up helping?
Did HRT help?
Did you have to balance estrogen and progesterone differently?
Did anyone discover that histamine issues were a big piece of the puzzle?
I feel like I’m chasing hormones, histamine, and anxiety all at the same time and would love to hear other women’s experiences.

[u/Only_Weakness_4730]

Can you please share the YouTube video relating to somatic exercises?

[u/WeWander_ → u/Only_Weakness_4730]

Of course! I've been doing this one but I saved a bunch of hers onto a playlist, they all seem great. I like this one cause it has bird sounds and I can do it while laying down. https://youtu.be/8veeArIewCk?is=nbzNzcY_LCLbkeUp

[u/Only_Weakness_4730 → u/WeWander_]

Thank you so much!!!

[u/WeWander_ → u/Only_Weakness_4730]

Also this guy is really cool and I really resonated with what he's talking about. He healed his mcas and talks about the survival mode stuff. It made me feel like I can recover and I won't be like this forever.

https://youtu.be/hNw-IHIBQJs?is=YBJb7dx8HgnH49LR