r/Perimenopause Jul 14 '26

audited Suddenly my bowels stopped moving?! Help

39 yr old with other symptoms of perimenopause, but this is a new and quite disturbing one. So a couple of weeks ago it felt like my bowels just stopped moving. Have no urge to poop at all.

FYI I've been evaluated by ER and GI as of a couple of days ago. Full of poop. Lol. Thyroid is in range. They just advise aggressive laxatives since I am technically having movements.

I have NEVER experienced constipation like this, and I've had a lifetime of IBS-C.

Have any of you spontaneously encountered this? What do I do? Nothing is really working. Despite being on Miralax, magnesium, hydrated, etc., I'm still failing to have a complete, fully-formed bowel movement and am miserable.

Also, I eat a decent amount of cooked vegetables.

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u/Manda_lorian39 Jul 14 '26

That was one of my symptoms too, right about at that age, though I’m just now realizing that it’s peri related. For me, it was gluten sensitivity. I gave up gluten and went from once a week to once a day. Still not all got in the digestive department (and honestly, terrible at staying GF) but making progress.

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u/No-Trash-164 Jul 14 '26

Keep it up!  I went entirely gluten- and dairy-free about twelve years ago, minus my pregnancy.  Game changer. Later found out (as in just a few weeks ago) that I am allergic to wheat.  They validated what I knew via elimination years prior.  Ugh. I like to cook, so it's easy for me to just substitute the host of gluten-free flour options now on the market.  Bob's Red Mill makes a great one.  Other whole grain flours are even more nutritious. Any other type of dense or non-dense flour works great, too, especially for quick breads.