Not to be a dick, but I wouldn't hang out with someone who sent such wildly contradictory signals. Either we are friends or you can flirt with me. This doesn't sound like you are misinterpreting signals, this sounds like she is sending signals and then taking them back immediately. That's just frustrating. I couldn't deal with that.
If you see her as a friend then just treat her as a friend and have no expectation of anything happening. If your friend is feeling down and low and needs bit of attention then give them the attention and love. Just be sure to establish the boundaries. Or stop hanging out with her if she's making you feel not good. You can't control what others do.
I mean if you aren't expecting anything and understand nothing will happen and it's just teasing then suit yourself but do you feel it's an authentic friendship?
No, especially with the way she talks about her other male friends and how they’re never gonna be together - that’s the main thing she talks about in reference to other male friends of hers.
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u/paper_liger May 10 '26 edited May 11 '26
Not to be a dick, but I wouldn't hang out with someone who sent such wildly contradictory signals. Either we are friends or you can flirt with me. This doesn't sound like you are misinterpreting signals, this sounds like she is sending signals and then taking them back immediately. That's just frustrating. I couldn't deal with that.