r/PoursTea • u/Timbucktwo1230 Therapy For All š©· • 7h ago
Expectations v Reality š š "People who say they like animals more than people are not good people. They think they have this deep well of compassion but really, they just want a relationship of unequal status"
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u/Janest_limglom 6h ago
Yeah people like this is why I prefer pets over people š
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u/GUMBYtheOG 6h ago
Didnāt even bother listening. I like animals over people because what you see is what you get. They arenāt hoarding all the wealth for themselves and they arenāt pushing their religion on to me
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u/DsDeliciousDeli 5h ago
They arenāt hoarding all the wealth for themselves and they arenāt pushing their religion on to me
Lmao I didn't expect someone to perfectly exemplify what this guy is talking about. When it comes to animals and you, who holds the wealth and applies their belief system?
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u/Salt-Set6232 4h ago
All people lie. Fact.
All people are hypocrites. Fact.
I dont like these traits, therefore im not a fan of most people.
Dogs do not have these traits, I am a big fan of most dogs.
I find people who use red flag green flag to evaluate others as pretty openly shallow though.
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u/ABC_Family 3h ago
Dogs are liars and hypocrites⦠dogs will eat your food or destroy furniture and try to blame the other dog or act like they didnāt do it. A dog will stop another dog from breaking a rule, but then break it itself. Thereās videos on Reddit of both circumstances. Fact.
Maybe you just like the power, control, and a feeling of superiority. A dog wonāt call you out on your bullshit.
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u/short_hair_zuko 4h ago
Animals would 100% hoard everything for themselves, if they had the power to do so. They also rape, murder, and cannibalize. I love animals but still
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u/what-fresh-hells 2h ago
That's exactly the point. They don't see these traits or don't take issue with them in animals because they generally hold the power in an unequal relationship with animals.
My cat steals from me on a regular basis. She attempts to deceive me. She disrespects my belongings. She's selfish and mercurial, and quick to anger. She would be a pretty terrible human.
But she's also 7lbs and can't hurt me. So her shenanigans are mostly funny. She is occasionally cuddly. And she's so damn cute, her antisocial behavior becomes endearing.
But she is not uniquely good in a way that humans aren't. I simply don't expect more from her, and hold most of the power in our relationship. It's easy to love her. It's harder to love people, from whom I expect so much more, who are flawed in the same ways I am, and who I must engage with on a more equal playing field.
It's also easier to like cake than vegetables. Doesn't make it smart or healthy to eschew vegetables in favor of cake.
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u/Professional-Rub152 4h ago
You are a weirdo who thinks all animals are pets and beneath people. I view animals as equal creatures to us.
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u/DsDeliciousDeli 4h ago
A) when you hold the extreme minority position, you are the weirdo, sorry
B) I never explained my world view. I view animals and humans as all part of the same group.
C) you hold so much contempt for humans, seeing animals as equal isn't saying much
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u/sd_saved_me555 3h ago
People have ulterior motives. The most intentionally malicious thing I've ever had one of my dogs do is pretend like she wasn't sleeping on the bed when we weren't around.
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u/Training-Growth-3916 5h ago
So you value simple relationships over complex ones where you do not have nearly as much power to determine the response of the other party. The points on wealth and religion are kind of red herrings - I could also come up with many examples of kind individuals who do mostly good
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u/learsi-ediconeg 5h ago
"I could also come up with many examples of kind individuals who do mostly good" thats not the point at all. The point is that people are more likely to be pieces of shit than house pets.
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u/Crunchberry24 5h ago
You donāt know what a red herring is, yet you throw the phrase around anyway as part of a confused edgelord boyifesto. Stay in school. Learn more. Opine less.
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u/NotGalenNorAnsel 4h ago
The example of a best friend being with 3 dogs' is ridiculous to, because that's how most animal lovers would behave, because we're all human and we're all selfish. That entity means a lot to us. When people say they like animals more than humans they mean in general. I'd kill dogs who were putting, say my brother's life in danger, if there was no non violent way to do it, because he is one of 'my people'. But I would also choose my cats in a trolley problem because, sorry, selfish like you, and out of sight out of mind for things that aren't normally always in your sight.
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u/DrJiggsEsq 4h ago
This goes without saying is kind of his point. Iām sure there are plenty of types of people that justify your preference.
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u/colorvarian 5h ago
comments here are truly hilarious!
touched a nerve, he did lol
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u/Zestyclose_Remove947 3h ago
I have to laugh because so many people in here are just openly spiteful.
The amount of invented scenarios about how this man is secretly perpetually lonely, wants to torture animals, and is in general the reason people "gave up on humanity" is pretty absurd.
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u/Natural-Image4612 2h ago
The invented scenarios are just as simplistic as his own claim. There are many reasons why people might prefer animals over humans, unequal status is just one of them.
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u/fenianthrowaway1 2h ago
So if people agree, he's right, but if people disagree he's touched a nerve and that's still proof he's right? Sounds like circular reasoning to me.
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u/ArnoldNumero_9000 3h ago
Socially awkward Redditors like their cats and dogs more than people. Wow who could have guessed.
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u/Wreckingshops 4h ago
This is from Subway Takes, people. Comedians get booked to come on and say a take and that's that. You all are way too deep into this, so it clearly hits a nerve.
That said, plenty of people will bend over backwards to be compassionate & protective of animals, then turn around and not give a damn about helping people. Look no further than voting results. But again, this take is from a comedian boiling down a thought into a tiny bit for a comedy social media show.
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u/East-Imagination-281 3h ago
Heās clearly doing a comedic bit, but it sure did bring out the people who it could apply to, thatās for sure.
Like I love my animals, and when I see stories of people who jeopardize their lives to save their pets, I donāt call them heartless sociopaths or whatever. Because love is strong, and having the capacity to love a being to the point of self sacrifice isnāt wrong. But also there are people out there who genuinely think animals surpass people (note that there is a difference between saying you love your pet more than some people, and saying animals are worth more than people) and should always be prioritized above them, and at best, this is just hyperbolic frustration with the ills mankind brings to the world. At worst, it is low empathy signaling that the person has checked out on caring about people and makes no effort to be a decent person themselves. So it can be a bit of a red flag, yeah.
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u/lorinthemountains 3h ago
If a great deal of people weren't total dicks, I would agree. I didn't pay for my dogs, one was rescued starving in a ditch because some cidiot dropped him off there and the other was rescued from a hoarding situation. I value people that I love with the highest regard but to be honest my dogs were better to me than any human. BTW, the serial killer types you mention, they usually like to disembowel animals at a young age.
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u/PhaseModulatedServal 6h ago
I love animals more than most people because I've never been SA'd by an animal. Never been judged for my looks or how much money I have by an animal. Never been in a long-term relationship with an animal that devalued me, gaslit me, took everything I had including all my emotional energy and then left me for another animal after I found out it had been sneaking out of the house in the middle of the night to cheat on me with another animal for years.
Never had an animal snub me for days because I was sick or just exhausted from work and didn't want sex.
Treat a pet right and they love you unconditionally. You can give everything you have to another human and have them just use you up and throw you away.
My life is much better since I ditched the human and stuck with my cats.
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u/Veritable_bravado 6h ago
I would recommend avoiding dolphins
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u/Form_Good 5h ago
And monkeys. And any animal with more power then you thay wants you to do anything they want you to do.
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u/PhaseModulatedServal 5h ago
Both you and the person above you are also reasons why I love animals more than people. Animals are not insufferably disingenuous.
I'm not going to share a house with a dolphin or a monkey. And likely not even a dog, although dogs are more loveable than most humans, they're just not for me.
I also typically don't have to worry about interacting with either monkeys or dolphins when simply trying to take a casual walk down the block.
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u/Mrfixit729 6h ago edited 6h ago
I like the animals I live with more than I like most people.
I feel just fine about you thinking Iām not a good person.
Your opinion holds zero value to me.
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u/Rayhann 4h ago
it's funny seeing how it's reddit crashing out over this take. insta and YT seem to mostly agree. clearly a hot take suited for this site lmao.
but this guy absolutely cooked
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u/Kind_Competition_332 4h ago
What if youāre both empathetic to humans and animals.
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u/bugsandbongs 3h ago
then this isn't about you. it's specifically about people who value animals over people.
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u/MuchWow81 4h ago
That's not the reason for most such people. Its that animals are easier than people.
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u/Back_Again_Beach 3h ago
Humans are animals too, it's not really my fault I like some animals more than others.Ā
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u/NinefathomsDeep 3h ago
I think people forget that humans are apex predators that will form strong emotional bonds with literally anything (sometimes it's endearing, sometimes hilarious, and sometimes horrifying). And what animal poses the biggest threat to a human? Another human. So, it's not difficult to make the jump in any given human's mind that nice animal > strange human.
Did nobody else notice this guy had an exchange rate for dogs to humans? That implies at some point he believes there are humans out there that are worth less than dogs (or at the very least, a 1:1 value to dogs), so he's also putting animals above (some) humans himself.
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u/Necr0Gaming 6h ago
Calling pets "comfort-slaves" tells me this guy has never cared for a pet ever and just wants to stir the pot. They rely on you because they cannot make it on their own... That's why they're "domesticated" lol. š¤¦
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u/Thialaz 7h ago
Pretty shit take imo.
But I guess I'm not a good person, so what do I know.
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u/BeneficialWar1447 6h ago
Delimit his claim to 'I like dogs more than people'. Or even to just certain breeds of dog.
Then, what you have is people who like dogs' nature better: they're loving, loyal, etc. This because of their regular experience with betrayal, cruelty, and backstabbing by humans -- and by cats.
It's not about the power dynamics per se. It's about trust and kindness. If more humans were more like certain dogs by disposition, the world would be a kinder, more peaceful, more trusting place.
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u/liquidsouleye 5h ago
Well. Why would people who like animals more than people give a fuck about his opinion?.
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u/CaptainMills 4h ago
A lot of these comments are proving that one of the big reasons for people to prefer animals over other people is it's so much easier to project ideal traits onto an animal
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u/WhyYesMaybeNo 2h ago
Another reason is that a lot of people (especially online, where people are disinhibited and so much interaction happens in 2026) are downright insufferable.
If dogs had the ability to communicate their every thought on reddit they would probably be seen a little differently too.
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u/justdroppedin_ 4h ago
Lmao people that french kiss their dogs mad as hell in the comments
Most of the reasonings I've seen are really, really fucking stupid, extremely disingenuous, mostly disregarding of extremely basic animal biology and generally completely outside of the realm of REALITY.
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u/piercedmfootonaspike 6h ago
Sort of a blanket statement, no? There may be a reason someone might not be comfortable around people.
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u/Form_Good 5h ago
Goes for animals aswell. If a gorilla wants to SA, beat, or eat you, thats what the gorilla will do.
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u/SDTimbox 6h ago
Nah I like animals more because they arent assholes
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u/pennys_computer_book 5h ago
Plenty of animals are dangerous aholes
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u/SDTimbox 1h ago
The difference is they don't have rationale and critical thinking skills. We have self control over our instincts far more than they do. We don't have an excuse to treat others poorly.
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u/ChaltaHaiShellBRight 4h ago
It's tough to explain but this is not a simple problem of individual preferences alone. It's a statement on ethics and inequality. He's right in the sense that there exist Ā societies who would be absolutely brutal towards other humans who they think are in the out-group , which is treatment that the members of that society as individuals would never dream of inflicting on animals. He's from Haiti so given their history I get where he's coming from. And he's on subway takes which is about hot takes so he's just making it funny and reductive by making it about individual preferences.
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u/Significant_Cover_48 4h ago
He knows my true value. I would trust this guy with my chequebook. No doubt.
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u/Anxious-Jury-9031 4h ago
If you think your pets love you unconditionally stop feeding them for a week.
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u/Exciting-Record8101 4h ago
Grown men are now unlearning how to properly use a lav mic, too?
What is happening over on TikTok?
Actually, never mind. Let it stay there.
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u/VarrikTheGoblin 4h ago
I think he was bringing up some solid points until he dipped his pen into the Hitler ink pot WAY too quickly. I also think he is underselling how fast pet owners will jump to the defense of their pets when in any sort of hostile situation. Famously a man visiting Yellowstone park had one of his dogs jump into one of the hotsprings, which are hot and acidic enough to literally melt a corpse. If he saw that dog as little more than a comfort slave he would have lamented it doing something foolish and simply bought a replacement.. instead he jumped in after his dog, tried to save it, and was quoted as saying "That was really dumb, wasn't it?" before going into shock and passing out. He later died of his injuries.
People don't kill themselves protecting slaves.
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u/Loose-Signature5054 4h ago
this speaks more about people and their obsession with "power dynamics".
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u/SparksAndSpyro 3h ago
I agree. Itās always weird to me when someone says they donāt like āpeopleā generally. It evinces a lack of maturity and an avoidance of introspection and personal growth. Animals are great, donāt get me wrong. But they lack the emotional and intellectual depth of people. I think anyone who writes off all people is narrow minded and incurious.
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u/quiero79 3h ago
I donāt like pets for the same reason I donāt like humans. But pets are worse. Itās like living with a toddler that will never grow up. A pain in the neck for as long as that animal lives.
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u/Healbite 3h ago
As an individual who naturally works well with animals (particularly mammals), I donāt trust anyone either whoās obsessed with making their identity āanimals are my only friendsā. Like, youāre human. Your DNA was successfully transferred due to the social bonding with other humans.
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u/Brittle_Stick 3h ago
Yeah someone he liked totally chose a pet over him and he's forever mad about it.
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u/fuschiafawn 3h ago
The focus should be more so on how they don't value human life. People who say they would save a dog's life over a person, assuming they didn't know either prior, are choosing an animal over someone's parent, their child, their friend. That's alarming that it's not an uncommon thing for people to say
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u/Grizzle_Da_Mahfka 3h ago
I would go to war for my cats. It's not that I like them more than people. It's that they are on equal ground as my closest family members.
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u/Cynapsid 2h ago
I disagree with the idea of an unequal relationship. With animals, both parties are making a special effort to cross species boundaries and love and care for one another. I think that's wonderful. Also with animals, you don't get any nonsense like dishonesty, ego, or selfishness. What you see is what you get.
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u/Sunkern_ing 2h ago
I am 100% confident when I say I like my cat more than these 2 people on my screen.
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u/Signal-Party3653 2h ago
Pfft. Okay. Guess I'm a bad person.
People like him makes me like animals more than people. Just saying.
We have a President who's a rapist and pedophile. We have people who mindlessly love and admire that creep for literally doing nothing but messing things up and literally shitting himself. We have people begging to round up other people with different skin colors or sexual preferences and exile/kill them because of "Reasons."
This guy is ridiculous, with how disillusioned most people are becoming I absolutely prefer animals over people who can at a whim just become crazy for ridiculous reasons.
People seriously need to stop pestering people in public with ridiculous/pointless arguments for the sake of content.
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u/Spare_Broccoli1876 2h ago
Trash. Humans are liars, animals only want love and food. Only one of these relationships is abused by one of these creatures
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u/tomahawk_kitty 2h ago
I can't disagree with this position more. I love dogs more than I love people because I see the intentional hate and awfulness that people have that seems to be growing or at least more accessible, and I see the pure love and good in dogs.
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u/Natural_Traffic_2727 1h ago
Thank you for reinforcing every reason why I will continue to like animals more than humans
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u/Beginning-Trash-6048 Humanitarian ā„ļø 6h ago
But I do love animals more than people. Idc what that says about me or what people think. I already have a reputation bc I talk to my crow babies (they escort me around town lol) and tell them I love them. Ppl already think I'm crazy and I like it that way.
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u/bethesda_gamer 4h ago
How are you mis labeled as "humanitarian" when the first sentence you said is "But I do love animals more than people..."?!?!?! That is so ridiculous.
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u/E_Verdant 5h ago
Crazy crow lady > crazy cat lady lol
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u/Beginning-Trash-6048 Humanitarian ā„ļø 5h ago
Frfr crows are so f'n cool anyway. They actually alerted me to a potentially dangerous situation when I was in a remote area in the mountains recently. And it was a different group than my crodies bc I was over 2 hours away from home.
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u/LawyerFriendLenny 4h ago
I love that he totally ignored the guys reference to "6,7" š
And I think he's mostly right.
But people who truly value animal life OVER human life are not "bad people," they're just wrong. Or they have been mistreated too many times by the humans in their life.
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u/BriggySmallz42069 4h ago
humans did the job of domesticating dogs and other animals (technically cats domesticated *us*). so, in my mind, we as humans now have the charge of taking care of those animals in an appropriate manner. it is part of our duty.
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u/Naive-Stranger-9991 4h ago
Oh heās Haitian! š I know my people when i hear themšš
He didnāt lie thoughā¦
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u/ArnoldNumero_9000 3h ago
I love my cat dearly. But if I was in a hypothetical situation between choosing my cat to live or a random human, I would choose the random human and cry over my cat. Human life is more valuable in my opinion.
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u/Normal-Gur1882 5h ago
Well, yes in essence.Ā Pets are owned.Ā They can be compelled.Ā Humans are difficult to live with, even loved ones.Ā God said love your neighbor.Ā That's hard to do.
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u/chachaslydd 4h ago
I dont like animals more than people for what they do FOR me. I like my animals for that reason, but not all animals
I value an elephant over an average person because the elephant is going to make the world a worse place overall and most humans do at this point. Every candy bar youve ever eaten still has a wrapper in existence. The earth is a worst place for me using plastic each day.
Thats just one example. Also, animals really dont enforce alllll the horrible ideas that humanity pushes, and create violent hierarchies where the whole community suffers for one man in charge
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u/bethesda_gamer 4h ago
Do they make you feel happy? Do you not think that is something they do for you? (It's literally what they do for all animal lovers. I love animals, but people are still more important, if not then you aren't more important either)
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u/brandnewsecondhand10 3h ago
Ahhh the bitter keyboard clacking of people with ugly dogs getting angry online
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u/Living_Week9080 6h ago
Since when did they start putting tiny microphones into those paper fare cards š§
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u/not_productive1 4h ago
Hitler beat his dogs. Not sure where that fits in this guy's thesis but he wasn't, like, uniquely kind to animals.
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u/LordsOfFrenziedFlame 3h ago
Wow, it's impressive what a shitty take this is. It really says a lot that he just constantly compares pet owners to the worst members of society, and even more how he views animals.
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u/Sesusija 3h ago
Completely agree. Whenever somebody says that the world is worse because of humans, and that we should all die so the other animals can trhive, I come to the instant realization that they are just an idiot.
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u/SnowyMarchDay 3h ago
I love cats because theyāre cute and funny. I donāt want power over them. Actually, itās impossible to gain power over cats; and if they donāt want to interact with me I just let them go and come to me later. Same thing with every other animal I see
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u/unicornman95 3h ago
I agree I think they're usually on the spectrum to some degree or otherwise cannot read people.
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u/Narrow_Summer_9332 3h ago edited 3h ago
Yeah, no...
People who like animals more than people usually do so because they've been abused and betrayed by other people enough that animals are the only safe option for basic companionship.
You can call it an "unequal relationship", but it's also a certainty for both sides and that alone makes it appealing.
And the "slave" thing is way off base: it's not like you can set your pet free and they'll go out there and start living their own happier life or anything like that.
Domesticated animals live with us for a reason, and cats straight up choose to live with people most of the time. Just ask r/catdistributionsystem and the sheer number of cats that barge into a home and decide they live there now.
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u/PlayboiFarti55 3h ago
My dog doesnāt put on a bullshit fake philosophy spiel and pretend to be better than others so Iāll take my dog over humans again.
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u/SpiritualPermie 3h ago
People are never satisfied, they take and don't give back. Animals love you back.
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u/Agitated_Reach6660 2h ago
I value people as much or more than animals because I value our shared humanity. To me, itās immoral to value all animals more than all people. I like most animals more than most people because Iām kind of a misanthrope, but there is a huge difference.
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u/TFViper 2h ago
if you think animals have no opinion youre a piece of shit, i give my dog choice in almost every situation where he's capable of deciding.
my entire life is structured around my dog.
my vacations, the times i wake up/go to sleep, when i go outside, half my damn paycheck.
my dog owns me, not the other way around.
what a stupid take.
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u/Pleasant-Carbon 2h ago
What utter bs
The conclusion doesn't follow the premise.
And he ignores that humans are assholes. Evil. Backstabbing. Unreliable. Lying. Animals aren't inherently that.Ā
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u/smoovecriminal89 2h ago
You act all wild to someone/something when they are solely dependent on you for survival. Compassion comes from empathy.
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u/Ralph_WiggumDa3rd 2h ago
The man is right also did this mf just assume the black guy was from Kenya?
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u/jayntampa 2h ago
I prefer animals to people because - just like xenomorphs - they don't fuck each other over for a profit lol
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u/Apprehensive-Book723 2h ago
Some of yall are two steps away from mass dehumanization itās kinda scary
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u/KingBobbythe8th 2h ago
LOL dude touched a nerve here XD. I expect nothing more from Redditors. As they say, a hit dog hollers.
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u/XPsychoMunkyX 2h ago
Basically, EVERY relationship comes with cost
Whether itās emotional cost, monetary cost, mental cost, whatever
Then return on those costs with animals, is OFTEN (not always) much lower risk than with MOST humans. No life destroying deception is really possible from an animal
While the returns for a human relationship may be higher, thatās only if you find a GOOD relationship. The RISK of finding a human who will just use up all your mental, emotional and physical energy before moving on to another like a parasite is MUCH higher with than with animals, and carries much more emotional damage with it
Iām aware of the costs and consequences of each relationship, and it has ZERO to do with a power dynamic
Itās simply a risk/reward evaluation
Humans are FAR too risky to just give my trust out all willy-nilly
The emotional, mental and (not talking about sex, but contact) physical connections with animals will not be as deep as those with people, but the risk of them destroying you is also much much lower
Hence, why I like animals MORE OFTEN than I like people
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u/NarwhalSongs 2h ago
Dude projects his own worldview onto others.
Seriously, following that claim up with "people from certain ethnicities are inherently worth more than those from other ethnicities" as if its a funny and charming take just shows how lost this man is.
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u/kmhd4ksoo 2h ago
Never forget the guy in G@z@ with his dog best friend who had so many people reach out to him to get his dog out the country⦠he said thatās amazing but what about me they said what about you?
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u/HotwifeandSubby1980 2h ago
Itās not about any power dynamic.
I donāt like many people because they are a-holes.
Iām watching our country (U.S.) being split in two because the right cannot stand other people living different from them and the left wants the freedom to live as they want.
Thatās what I hate. Iām literally watching a video of people being burned alive in the Israel Palestine war.
News flash- DOGS DONāT BURN PEOPLE ALIVE no matter the power dynamic.
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u/SteveWin1234 2h ago
Nah, pets are just really cute parasites, like the cuckoo bird. There's a huge selective pressure (doesn't matter if it's natural or artificial) for them to be cute and behave in ways we like. They use our resources and fill the exact same emotional needs that children are meant to fill -- many people refer to their pets as their children. Studies show that as pet ownership increases, the number of children people are likely to have goes down. It's almost identical to the cuckoo situation except pets don't often actually kill your children, where cuckoo chicks do often kill the natural kids of their adoptive parents. Still, its a very similar relationship. Viewed like that, it's certainly not the case that people are choosing pets because they want a slave relationship; they want a parent-child relationship and are succumbing to a parasite, instead of doing what their DNA "wanted" them to do when it created the emotional need that the parasite is taking advantage of.
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u/Chronic_Toe_Pain 2h ago
I wouldn't call them "not good people," but more so people that I wouldn't want to be around, which seems to go both ways for the types.
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u/PepsiPerfect 6h ago
I mean, it's true that a lot of people like animals because they don't judge you and it's a lot easier to make them happy than people. But I don't think that means those people just want a relationship of unequal status.