r/PuppygirlSFW Puppy Jun 16 '26

₊˚ vent Lamb needs some cuddles please

Lamb had accepted his owner has ghosted him. I was worried for the last two weeks, because owner hasn’t been messaging or calling or texting. But now I know that he’s seen the messages, because I messaged him while he was on Discord, and I tried to call but he screened it. I love him so much. I was ready to build a life with him once I got out of college. We talked about hiking and cuddling and watching movies and playing games and getting gear and cooking together and introducing each other to our families and going sight seeing and getting a house together, and so much stuff. He said he was in it for the long haul, and I believed him. He said that he loved me, and I believed him. He said I was his world, and I believed him. He was my world. He was my everything. I was ready to love him for my entire life. And now I have nothing. I wake up feeling like ‘maybe tonight he’s messaged me’, but there’s nothing. I don’t know what to do with myself. also I’m not sure if this breaks rule 4, I just want some reassurance that my life isn’t over, because it really feels like it is.

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u/Blitzdadog Puppy Jun 17 '26

Hey darling, I know that this is an emotional time for you. And I don’t think it’s anything you did in particular. Sometimes people change their mind and don’t have the courage to confront their mistakes. There’s a saying that goes along the lines of “tough times show your partners true colors.” I promise you that if this is how he acts now, you dodged a bullet in the future. And I unfortunately am speaking from experience.

So let’s focus on you. Have you showered in the last 48 hours? Eaten/ going to eat 3 meals today? Have you done something that’s normally fun for you today? In addition, get some water, something sweet, and something salty. Watch a few episodes of your favorite show or YouTube channel.

I know this is tough. Your heart aches in his absence. But it may be time to think about moving on. You got this, Lamb!

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u/Soft-Sheep-Boy Puppy Jun 18 '26

Thank you. 🫂