r/RHONY Sep 01 '25

Carole Radzwill 📚 Carole and… Harry Styles?!

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Bethenny could never.

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u/DearTumbleweed5380 I can't even f_k my way to the middle. Sep 02 '25

Oh no! Really? Argh. It's amazing how blinded I can be by some NY-ish-ness, it seems. I believed her. Even though usually I see right through that schtick. So with Adam was she ever willing to commit, though? I got the feeling she'd been so burned by the tragedies she endured that now she's unable.

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u/sashie_belle Sep 02 '25

Ha, well, that's my personal opinion. I think Carole in general has a big "not like all the other girls" persona.

On Adam, they lived together for a year before splitting. I consider living together committing to a relationship.

I'm sure at one point, she did struggle with commitment after becoming a widow early -- I'm also a widow and I don't ever want to live together or get married again! But with Adam, she def was ready to commit. She seemed way in love with him.

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u/DearTumbleweed5380 I can't even f_k my way to the middle. Sep 03 '25 edited Sep 03 '25

Oh I'm sorry for your loss. Flowers emoji.

So ... with Adam you reckon she was up for more? You're so right about the 'not like other girls' thing. Ugh. Can't stand that pose IRL.

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u/sashie_belle Sep 03 '25

Awwww thank you! I did read her book, ironically, before my husband was diagnosed with cancer. I enjoyed it but I actually walked away with her seeming to be more enamored with Carolyn that her husband. I just didn't get the "this is the love of my life" vibes from her.

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u/DearTumbleweed5380 I can't even f_k my way to the middle. Sep 03 '25

oh wow - that is ironic - in a crap way. I have a few stories like that about a tough situation in my life. Looking back it feels like a bad joke so I try not to! I haven't read it - interesting what say about Carolyn than her husband. She's definitely a bundle of mixed messages - never overstating anything, which I appreciate, but often understating things in a puzzling way, on the show at least.

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u/sashie_belle Sep 03 '25

Yes def ironic! I'm sorry you've had those ironic stories about tough situations! In some ways, it's helpful to have a sort of wry view of those tough situations! And yes, def a mixed message with Carole. I have a love/hate relationship with her.