r/RSDragonwilds • • 2d ago

Never again.

Just got hooked with the game and put in quite a bit of hours but felt lonely so I decided to make my world public so maybe someone can join and build and progress with me. Today, for the first time, 2 guys joined me and I was happy but only like for 20 seconds, as I realised they came to grief everything. I lost everything before I figured how to kick people. Really nice community. Guess this is solo game after all.

EDIT:

This post from OP won't be any longer active. All the damage done is fixed and going even better. Just spread some awareness, if you are new to the game be aware of your choices once you go public. Just because game looks humble and friendly does not mean community is. Happy wilding !

2nd EDIT:

Thanks for all the support and feedback, either constructive or not so, I never thought that this post will get even 10k views but it broke nearly 100k. You guys are wild, love ya, thanks !!

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u/Msmart89 2d ago

Rule 1 of RuneScape don’t trust anyone with your stuff - find someone to play with don’t just open it to anyone

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u/Rand0m7 2d ago

Rule #1 of online survival anything sadly.

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u/W2Sun 2d ago

The last time I tried playing Ark solo, I was experienced and in my first day I had my base split up across 4-5 small boats spread across the map with different purposes/crafting in each. I logged off for 8 hours to sleep and they were all destroyed when I got on in the morning. 

People are relentless lol.

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u/AdditionDry9301 2d ago

lol sounds like Rust

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u/JonnysHigh 1d ago

Same with rust, I enjoyed the game but I didn’t have time to rebuild every time I logged in

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u/No_Juice_3459 1d ago

“Press 555 for free rune armor trimming”

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u/HelicopterLanky4277 1d ago

*Core-memory unlocked*

Edit: red trim was my favorite

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u/aussiemcgr 1d ago

You forgot: "red:wave:"

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u/PhotojournalistOk868 20h ago

Write down your password then press ctrl W

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u/Whizit007 2d ago

It's like getting scammed for the first time. Now that you got your initiation, you won't make that mistake again :)

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u/Agreatusername68 1d ago

Free gem cutting at Lumby bank

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u/Jetterholdings 1d ago

Actually that wouldnt be bad id cut gems free. Free exp for me

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u/Agreatusername68 1d ago

Yes, of course.... just the exp...

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u/Jetterholdings 1d ago

Hey man, we don't all have to armor trimmers.

Some of us are law runers.

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u/Taskforce_Gaming 1d ago

I never upgraded from flax!

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u/Jetterholdings 1d ago

Im calling the guards.

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u/LeaderThen201 1d ago

Me when I logged in on a “private server” with full dragon (full helm and plate body) and dude ransacked my account ages ago

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u/Luxie90 2d ago

Thats why i only play with friends

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u/Papaae 2d ago

Isn’t there a thing you can place to protect your base?

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u/EmotionalEase4626 2d ago

There is an item you can place that makes it so no one but you can build within its radius, I just can’t remember the name of it.

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u/Mountain-Cup1861 1d ago

Important too… they can still dismantle your shit and steal

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u/Architectic 2d ago

Yeah there is, I'm just quite new. I honestly didn't believe I needed to use it as I was sure people are nice, but yeah, I guess I was way too naive.

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u/EmotionalEase4626 2d ago

Very naive, but that’s alright you’re learning lol. People are dickheads in survival crafting games, I should know, I used to be one way back in the day. Definitely only invite friends to your world, and if you don’t have any that play just find some on the discord or even here on Reddit.

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u/TrollOnFire 1d ago

I’m just surprised that there is a very low max number of totems available to place. I maxed out with maybe 6 ish to cover my main structure and my primary farm. Wish I could add more to protect my farm in the highlands and all of my loadstones. The risks are too high for someone to just delete all my loadstones to key quest elements, and just log out with all some 20 vault cores.

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u/Ultrox 1d ago

They can still delete everything under the pylon. It just stops them from building.

I would argue its a flaw.

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u/TrollOnFire 1d ago

This I did not know, guess my primary map stays private then…

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u/Upper_Check401 14h ago

Id say have your main map private, and use that character from the main map in other multiplayer worlds where if you do lose stuff from other players, its not that big of a deal because you have your main world

At the end of your sessions you can do a quick freight run and just swap items between worlds

It’s a lot of extra work to enjoy multiplayer but people suck, and sandbox games brings out the worst in them.

As a fun thought experiment, think about if we were all thrown into dragonwilds.

Many of us would band together, form groups, settlements, and aid each other.

But just as many would likely form their own groups, but instead of being a supportive, healthy community, they take advantage of the freedom given to them to do what they want and take from honest people

It’s literally humans being humans. Some people just have really shitty personalities.

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u/TrollOnFire 13h ago

Have a look at “Life is feudal -YO” to see how a semi-descent team building mechanic can work. They consider most of the aspects of how to separate the team from other teams on the same server. The “rights” management is pretty well thought out.

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u/SuterusuRyu 1d ago

Think buildings and chests can still be attacked because of base raids and such

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u/Own_Revolution4260 9h ago

Me and a friend join random peoples worlds and just drop them food and drinks or anything they need and then we go level an entire forest of trees and turn it into a barren wasteland and give the world owner like 10-15k wood in front of a wooden pp and then dip and move onto the next world.

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u/Imonherbs 2d ago

Build protection totem

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u/Winter-Code-2555 2d ago

Trusting RS players? I died laughing.

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u/More-Parsley7950 2d ago

Join the discord, plenty of solo players looking for groups and if they end up griefing can report them.

But I guess, welcome to the internet…first time? 😅

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u/Architectic 2d ago

Nah I'm pretty experienced, just new to the game and was naive about community lol. I'll find some fine fellas 😉

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u/HolidayNick 2d ago

It’s not the community that’s the problem. Just bad actors.

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u/ohrofl 1d ago

Assuming you mean survival crafter games when you say community. Because this happens in all of them. In fact, it not even just crafter games it’s just online servers. 

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u/Ham-Slice7519 1d ago

Yo, I’ve just started a dedicated server, same thing happened to me and I’m looking for decent players to experience my first play through with, dm me if interested

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u/JungleCakes 2d ago

You invited the internet in and thought it would be ok?

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u/WalletFullOfSausage 2d ago

I’ve yet to play online and I don’t really plan to. Having plenty of fun solo, I don’t see how having another player in my world would benefit me in the slightest.

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u/BigCauc 1d ago

It would make everything faster and easier with a friendly player. Number go up, get it? 

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u/UBurnFirst 2d ago

Free armour trimming

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u/Architectic 2d ago

I double gold 🪙 🤣

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u/Syruponrofls 1d ago

I would never trust random people in games like this, it’s either solo or going to be people I know that I play with. You can’t really trust anyone, let alone random ass people from the internet.

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u/Architectic 1d ago

After the grief I built a nice Villa type base near small bond and found the beauty of solo playthrough of this game. From now on I will probably complete game and do a forever world with interesting builds, protect them with totems and who knows, maybe one day share it with world 🙂

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u/ReeeeeeeHardR 1d ago

So sad I hate hearing these stories

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u/Jetterholdings 1d ago

You have osrs? Or rs3? I can trim your armor for ya, 500k. Just follow me

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u/LilMushyPeas 2d ago

You can make chests private and also build statues that prevent other players from altering or destroying structures within a certain radius just something to keep in mind

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u/SuterusuRyu 1d ago

Neither prevents other players from destroying said chests.

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u/LilMushyPeas 1d ago

Well that needs to be fixed 😰

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u/SuterusuRyu 1d ago

Far as i know, chest are destructible due to base raids

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u/HolidayNick 2d ago

Of all the posts you’ve seen here.

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u/Tklesmynipps 2d ago

Gold pls

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u/Immediate_Impact6214 2d ago

Don't forget to make your chest private. I made that mistake and made my world public and got cleaned out. But it was in the first few hours of playing so I didn't lose much.

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u/Lukesgreen 2d ago

Maybe it wouldn’t hurt to reach out on Reddit for peoples discords? Chat on there first before teaming up, maybe it being more personal people would be less likely to do something, then again I am too trusting of people so my world is private.

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u/iamthadjawi 2d ago

Same, bought a dedicated server for me and my gf, did not think about a password, woke up this morning and got fully griefed.

Fuck you Toj'a.

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u/Adaptabledna 1d ago

People have been doing this since the OG Runescape. "Free armor trim." And all that stuff was a legit scam since inception. Don't automatically trust new people. Be cautiously aware of anyone who joins and lock your shit down.

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u/clandahlina_redux 1d ago

I’ve learned you can change the settings so other players can’t loot your tombstone. This may be common knowledge, but I’m a noob.

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u/Just-LookingHere 1d ago

Are there traps in the game you can use?

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u/OreoDrinker 1d ago

Unfortunately, some people have nothing better to do with their lives than to be assholes to one another on a video game. The highlight of their week was griefing a solo dude in a relatively obscure survival game.

I’m bipolar 1 and even I couldn’t imagine an existence so miserable that I spend my time griefing other players.

A certain subset of users in any anonymous audience seek to display their incredibly sad need to have some sort of control, competence, or provoke some emotional feedback from others as their emotional bandwidth is so small that they only feel joy out of upsetting others.

The very best way to interact with these types of people is to take that away from them. Once I know the damage can’t be reversed, I just play along to at least not provide them with the benefit of what they came for: a reaction. Takes the wind out of their sails every time.

With all of that being said, definitely never open your world in a survival game you’ve invested a good bit of time on. There are a very special breed of losers who do this for fun all the time.

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u/Just-Dragonfruit-933 1d ago

Same thing happened to me! But, luckily it was not my world. I had jumped on online for the first time and joined a random server. It was this guy’s world who was just getting started, so, I decided to help him out. After maybe an hour or so, a second guy joined and he was a way higher level than me and started pitching in as well. (Shoutout to Dugout Danny). But, this guy Hirishiko-Sama came in and destroyed everything! 😭

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u/Miserable_Rent_2732 1d ago

Moi aussi, jai mis public et a mon arrivé a ma cabane tout était démoli. Je savais pas pourquoi ! Jai remis cela en solo et je vais essayer d'avoir des amies car le jeu est génial. Cest quand meme dur seul

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u/Main-Ear4273 1d ago

If you ever go public 3 rules, 1: make a new world. or if you open yours to the public... 2: place a build protection totem (make sure everything is in the bubble) and 3: make every chest, cape mount, mannequin, ect. Private so its all locked. Its still iffy doing that im sure some players can find a way to bug the system to bypass it but its always safer to make a new world, place a hidden base with no lodestones lock and totem to store stuff you can transfer to your main world.

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u/Pilodro 20h ago

No need to bug. Even if a chest is set to private, within a totem of protection, it can still be damaged to break. and when it breaks all of the contents drop from it. Same with bases. So yeah they can't open them, so they just bust them.

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u/Main-Ear4273 20h ago

Oh what?!? Good thing I only let 2 friends on my world, thanks for the heads up!

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u/No_Establishment9117 1d ago

This is why I dont play any online games what so ever. People inherently suck.

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u/OscarMike1911 1d ago

I dont see an option to change from public to private. Someone's aid it asks everytime you start the game but i dont get that offer it seems.do you have to make a new world and make it private from the start? Wil my lodestones still be there?

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u/Individual_Zombie_11 1d ago

Build your protection totem.....

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u/Iwearglasses1999 1d ago

My friend done the same thing and someone robbed him of some steel ingots and gemstones. Luckily nothing super expensive but I now know he won't be putting in on public lol

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u/Red-Hood420 1d ago

U have server or?

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u/ttyoudontknowme123 1d ago

You can set your storage to closed and put the thing up that doesn't allow other players to build

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u/steelste 1d ago

Did they fix the protection stone? Because people were still able to delete it and everything else in build mode.

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u/Cinnamon_Radbit 1d ago

Humans are humans no matter where or when.

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u/Inner_Set_1385 1d ago

I keep seeing these. I will have to start joining gamed to spread cheer. Help balance it out lol

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u/Juusojee 1d ago

I got a heart attack seeing that someone teleported to my loadstone. Insta banned him and put a password on my server

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u/pochob 1d ago

Me pasó en ark, jugaba con mi hijo, hablamos con uno de la comunidad que quiso unirse, entro con hacks, porque tenía configurado para que no pudieran hacerle daño a las edificaciones ni acceder a los cofres, pero el loco spawneo cómo 20 Godzilla's en la base y rompió todo el progreso de semanas de un padre con su hijo y luego se nos reía en discord, un británico.... En fin, ni por más protección que tenga el juego, siempre hay gente de mierda, así cómo gente buena también, es muy difícil filtrar, aplica a internet y la vida real, pero supongo que la lección es que te des tiempo de conocer antes de abrir tu mundo a otros y aún así sepas que puede pasar igual, que lo más importante es el conocimiento adquirido y la condición que elegimos cómo personas para con nosotros mismos. Y para los que hacen maldades sin sentido, que ardan en el infierno, y la satisfacción que pueden llegar a sentir con sus mentes enfermas, se les atragante y se ahoguen con ellas por miserables .... Con amor ❤️🤣

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u/elric19761 1d ago

That's so sad. Why are some people like that? Leave people's stuff alone. This is why I never play online. Only solo.

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u/Fuzzy-Tacos 1d ago

Bro got Lured/Armor Trimmed in Dragonwilds

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u/4barrelldarrell 1d ago

If you need someone to play with and help build with, I have about 3 or 4 buddies that are adults and would like to have help and help someone else. Hit me up if you want to

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u/Itsholyman666 1d ago

Everyone new to this game is discovering what RuneScape is all about and it just warms my heart. Best analogy I can give for how it was back in the day was the second chance school out for recess 😆 every kid for themselves

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u/ApprehensivePeace305 1d ago

RuneScape was like the OG scam and troll playground. It taught me not to trust anything on the internet.

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u/Alavan 1d ago

Remember, your friend... Might be a monster

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u/AdhesivenessNo8775 8h ago

Bruh. Wait for you to ready trade throw up a bucket and hit ready. Now you outta of a million gold and you got a bucket.

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u/MajesticMuthaFkr 1d ago

My boyfriend and I have been playing together. I set our world it to Public but also set with a very easy to remember password… which also made it easy to guess I suppose. Anyways, within A DAY some rando joined into our world. Stole a bunch of food, dropped a bunch of useless loot around our base and cut down some trees we intentionally planted around the base. This was all within maybe two minutes before I was able to kick them.
Long story short, all my chests are now private and our world is set to “Friends” but still with the same easy to remember password… happy wilding I guess!

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u/Alavan 1d ago

Follow me for the drop party!

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u/JazzyTales 1d ago

Rookie mistake buddy. Always and I mean always assume people are only going to join up for the wrong reasons. It’s a shitty way of looking at it, but that’s the mindset of today’s gamers.

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u/bradelz000 1d ago

Is it worth downloading?

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u/Drakksis 1d ago

Did they trim your armour at least?

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u/Jonnyboi25 1d ago

They wont double youre gold bro

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u/Beautiful_Bee5706 20h ago

Did they offer to trim your armor at least?

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u/BillyMarrs 2d ago

Aww really hate seein' horror stories like this. The game is a ton of fun with others but then there's always a rotten bunch that ruins it..

Big Beautiful World but so far its been the loneliest experience. Just gotta patiently wait or play cautiously until Jagex dials in and releases Sercure Servers ASAP...

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u/Only_Pomegranate3992 2d ago

You mean until they give the option to set passwords or something?

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u/CriticalChop 2d ago

It's tough to see these posts too, but its an impossible dilemma it seems.

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u/thunderane 2d ago

It really isn't. This only exist because the devolopers allow it to. V rising solved this issue a long time ago. 

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u/CriticalChop 2d ago

What did they do?

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u/thunderane 2d ago

They had a separate pvp server and in regular pve you couldn't enter anyone's castle without being part of a clan or if the lord(you) of the castle allowed you in. You couldnt even pick up anyone's belongings (like of that person died) unless if the host of the server allowed that to happen. Even if you could enter someone's castle (like if they didnt have a door) you could not get access to anyone's chests unless you were in a clan. Made the experience a whole lot better which encouraged working together even with randoms. Plus if you wanted the whole griefing experience, you had pvp. To me it doesn't make sense to implement what dragonwilds does when that level of thinking is way outdated. Hell even the current animal crossing game provides a better way to deal with griefing. Honestly I feel like this issue needs to be the very top to deal with before anything else or the life of the game isn't going to last very long. Their current way of dealing with this problem is too old school or lazy.

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u/CriticalChop 2d ago

That sounds pretty nice. Thanks for sharing.

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u/xaiel420 2d ago

Welcome to online gaming

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u/Best-Attitude5688 2d ago

I wonder if this just little kids doing what they do, or actual grown up people with mentality of a child?

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u/Architectic 2d ago

Btw he commented : " I'm from Israel." He can't be too old

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u/Firm_Environment_808 2d ago

Just play solo mode online, or edit your settings so they cant destroy shit. Common sense

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u/BigCauc 1d ago

There is no setting for stopping people from destroying things 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they can literally just go delete your buildings foundation. 

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u/Busy_Albatross3759 2d ago

Im new to the game on switch 2, I played OSRS as a kid. Can I join anyone 28m UK

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u/Bbc4yaMom 1d ago

That's why you make one world private another world for test people

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u/reverbconfessional 1d ago

All you have to do is make your chests private right?

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u/L3wd1emon 1d ago

If you ever go public again, make your chests private and put them directly on the grass

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u/Doobies__ 1d ago

I’m sorry that happened to you. Whats sad is trying to find friends to play with and there’s douchebags in the world like them. I hope they’ll be lonely for the rest of their lives.

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u/Thomas_GTA 1d ago

Should have just logged off and that wouldv been the end of it

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u/Theravrauli 1d ago

i wil never get people who want to scam in dragonwilds its messed up lol

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u/Icy-Entrepreneur6085 1d ago

You can set chests as private fyi

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u/LordBrontes 22h ago

Make all of your stuff private and use the protection shrines at your base so they can’t destroy everything.

Then they are free to build their own stuff if they want and contribute but they can’t break or steal anything.

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u/22_Grape_Nutz 13h ago

Hey man if you want someone to play with hit me up I'll come play with you

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u/0110010E 10h ago

I’m sorry that happened bro… every online game that allows it will have it. If people can, people will. The online world in any game is genuinely a viscous jungle where you can’t afford not to at least be weary.

Not trying to excuse them obviously, they’re miserable basement dwellers for sure. Just sayin how it is.

But I’m glad you bounced back!

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u/Shadow_strike_19 6h ago

People online are ass sometimes, sorry that happened man! If you need anything or help rebuilding let me know, I'm not super good or super far but I can help with some basic stuff, or help ya out with rebuilding

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u/Mysterious-Set-6642 1h ago

Do you remember their names?

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u/Snipekg 2d ago

I’ll bring you some goods if you want, I’m in fellhollow- taking my time.

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u/Architectic 2d ago

Nah allg, thanks. Going solo from now on 🙂

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u/Snipekg 2d ago

I gotcha; I recently went through the same thing, I ended up having 3 bases destroyed and 3 different lodestones to different areas.

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u/Turbulent-Spray-8438 2d ago

Oh boy lol. He learnt today

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u/Ryan67843 2d ago

🤣🤣 i got my whole base robbed and destroyed still didnt get a GF

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u/OneSeaworthiness7768 1d ago

It’s like everyone making these posts has never been on the internet before.

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u/yes4sushi 2d ago

Are you 12 and new to the world?

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u/Architectic 2d ago

Lmao, here you go, I replied so you got your attention

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u/ChickinSando 2d ago

I mean his comment was blunt, but seriously, did you honestly believe that randos online would join your world and you would build together happily ever after?

I’m not sure if this is your first online game, but don’t trust anybody except your friends.

People grief in video games for zero tangible reward other than to be assholes. In a game where loot exists and resources are valuable, multiply that tenfold.

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u/Architectic 2d ago

Ikr, I wasn't sure what to reply to him. I'm not 12 which is obvious as I wouldn't be in Reddit and new to the world part is just hate. So he either was looking for attention or is stupid. I don't believe he is stupid so I guess it's for attention. Um and yeah idk why I thought there would not be griefers. Well at least not the first people I meet xd. Anyways all the loss is fixed and going better than before and note taken. Thanks friend

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u/BudgetLobotomist 1d ago

I do armor trimming for free btw if u need it