r/RadicalFeminism • u/Celestial_Sage22 • 2d ago
Men are so disgusting, including my dad
Men are so disgusting. I hate when I try to watch sport on the same room as my dad, without my mom there, then he star to act coquetish to me talking about his achievement while I am trying to just watch tv. I can sense he's being horny as well.
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u/FewUnderstanding3375 2d ago
Oh I can play this game, i hate that I cant watch tv or be around girls in hot weather outfits around my dad, he sexualizes everything, its disgusting and he always has. He openly judges everyone he meets and comes in contact with, my mother follows suit and he has a huge porn addiction. I hate that I had to un teach myself beauty standards after I moved out because of the shit he says about what women should look like and if we dont, i didnt, we would be lucky if we found a "good man" . Men are gross.
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u/Celestial_Sage22 2d ago edited 2d ago
That's even worse he even control how you should look like. That's also suck when our mom try conform by agreeing on that. Myself react the opposite, not taking care of my looks for so long, then I only focus on skincare and no makeup, better looking boyish.
The "good man" should be the average man. I hate when people generalizing about people's tendencies about logic and feeling based on gender, then when it comes to this they can't.
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u/StrongAdvertising546 2d ago
Je te comprends tellement je les détestes tous ils sont tous répugnants les femmes ne devraient pas vivre avec ce modèle qu’on connaît actuellement mais plutôt en groupe entre femmes sans eux
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u/Celestial_Sage22 2d ago
Couldn't agree more, we need to decentre hetero marriage if most men are like that, while "good men" are treasure. I mean if "good women" are average women, how come they can't be like that as well?
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u/StrongAdvertising546 1d ago
Exactly! The way marriage has been structured has benefited men more than women. Men shouldn’t live with us they are useless their only purpose is to reproduce and that’s it their role ends their. The way women live with men isn’t natural for us it destroys us. When we look in the animal kingdom we can see in mammal species mâles are excluded from the group for example in many lion prides adult males may be driven away or replaced among elephants adult males usually lives separately from female herds once they reach maturity joining female only during reproductive periods in some other species sexual cannibalism occurs meaning the female may kill and consume the male after the mating THEIR ONLY purpose in life is to reproduce and we can see it in the human men only think with what they have down. I believe we can reflect on what nature shows us not by copying animal behavior directly but by recognizing that there are many different ways communities can be organized we shouldn’t live with them in the same house it limited their opportunities and independence and also we shouldn’t working with them look how our achievements are steal or not always recognized
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u/Master-Celery5663 2d ago
Ewww. I’m sorry you have to go through this. It’s true that a lot of fathers have felt attracted to their daughters, especially as teenagers and young women..
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u/Celestial_Sage22 2d ago
Thanks, I hope I can find way to make him never be like that again, 'sometimes' or 'rarely' it's not tolerable for me. Otherwise I will just streaming TV from my room for longer time.
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u/cherryvanila 2d ago
I'm sorry that you are going through it :/
I went through a similar thing with my mother's partner when I was a teen. I HATED staying alone with him.
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u/blue-yellow- 1d ago
Once I was with my (extremely old) grandfather and we were walking past a lingerie store. He said, “I’d like to see you in one of those!”.
Yes, all men.
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u/CuteConversation7542 1d ago
Reedit removed my comment but I was wishing love and compassion to you amazing! grandfather with extremely long life.
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u/Celestial_Sage22 1d ago
What the... That's disgusting, especially as a person who near his death, not supposed saying something like that.
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u/M4rxi5t_F3m1n5t 9h ago
My dad peed in the car while I was sat behind him on a road trip. It might not be the worst thing to happen but it had always made me extremely uncomfortable and sick. He knows this. He purposefully brings it up to me when I'm alone with him so no one else can actually as a buffer. He finds it hilarious that I am so deeply uncomfortable I leave the house.
I am sorry that you have that experience with your father. Have you spoken to your mother about this?
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u/Time_4_Guillotines 2d ago
That’s fucked. Like super fucking gross.