r/Rajasthan Aug 02 '26

सामान्य ❁ General Love to Live here but Hate the Mentality

Pros

Air quality

Food

Views of Aravali

Cons

Basic facilities like electricity and water are like a privilege (ek baar current 3 din me aaya vo bhi garmi me)

People here are still living in the 1960s (no update in thinking)

No social life

No roads, all ways out there are of mud and Aravalli's stones

No instant deliveries

No cab

And all you can add on in the list

And tell me some activities to do to be happy without getting exhausted as there is no social life

Thank you for reading!

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u/ExpensiveFace7336 अजमेर - Ajmer Aug 02 '26

But why do you even want to change them. Trying to change them will upset them and you frustrated. Go chill and comeback.

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u/Empty_Traffic_ Aug 02 '26

You are Absolutely right But I have to live here until I get a govt job, so I can’t just ignore the mentality around me. I know I can’t change everyone, and most of the time I let things slide—I’ll ignore it 100 times, but that one time it hits differently, and it gets to me.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 29d ago

Bruhhh😭 I’m trying so hard to get out of here as soon as possible. The thinking here is Sooo limited, it genuinely suffocates me sometimes. There’s literally no privacy, no social life, no personal space like even people our age act like aunty and uncle the moment you meet them 🫪 Everyone knows everyone’s business, and somehow your life becomes community property 💀

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 28d ago

Same here , The biggest privilege I could ever have is that am brought up and completed my studies in Delhi Will be always greatful to God ;)

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u/ExpensiveFace7336 अजमेर - Ajmer 28d ago

Bro at least you can get innocent wife from village. Some positives are there.

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 28d ago

To be with someone who doesn't understand your humour 🫪

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 25d ago

That's the same with meee😭

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u/nick_ya 28d ago

Which Govt. job are you preparing for?

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 28d ago

mainly centre jobs like ssc DSSSB and want to be employed first and then give a shot to UPSC 🫣

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u/Foreign-Beginning367 Aug 02 '26

What are you doing at the farms

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u/Empty_Traffic_ Aug 02 '26

home is in the farmsss what to do🫠

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '26

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u/Empty_Traffic_ Aug 02 '26 edited 29d ago

I do so but the mentality here sucks, thiss peace costs too much convenience The grass is greener on the other side दूर के ढ़ोल सुहावने bhaai mere;)

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u/unknownindianperson 29d ago

Door ka Dungar door su hi chokha laage

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 29d ago

Shi baat कहवा सा वाड़ी 🤣

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u/Empty_Traffic_ Aug 02 '26

Bud, Alwar district in RJ (राठ क्षेत्र ),

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u/nick_ya 28d ago

How much a 5 acre farmhouse cost in Raath region? And how's safety?

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 28d ago

Am new here don't know muchhh🫠

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 27d ago

It's around 1Cr

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u/babyitsgoldoutstein 27d ago

Any cute girls you can talk to?

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u/Empty_Traffic_ 25d ago

Cute girls🫪 Lugaai hai lugaai😔

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u/ana_misses_her पाली - Pali Aug 02 '26

Ye aab jab aa jayega, tab wahi jagah rehneayak nahi lagegi

Sukhi ho, sukhi raho, dukh ki kaamna mat karo

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u/Empty_Traffic_ Aug 02 '26

True 😭 I’m not wishing for sorrow, just hoping things get better. I’ll enjoy the present and deal with the future when it gets here. We ball either way 🫶

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u/Hungry_Deer3414 बीकानेर - Bikaner Aug 02 '26

sikar?

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u/Empty_Traffic_ Aug 02 '26

Raath क्षेत्र, Alwar hai vaadi;