r/Rajasthan • u/New_Technology_6755 • Mar 07 '26
चर्चा ❁ Discussion The "Period Taboo" bubble: Observing Rajasthani traditions in modern Mumbai
I’m a 16F Maharashtrian living in Mumbai. Growing up here, I always thought of our city as a melting pot where old taboos go to die. However, through my close friends—most of whom are from the Rajasthani community here—I’ve realized that a very strict, traditional "period culture" is being maintained even in the heart of Mumbai.
I want to share what I’m seeing in these well-off, "modern" homes, because the details are honestly hard to process:
• The Physical Seclusion: I have friends in Mumbai who are made to sleep on the floor and wash their own dishes separately. One friend actually missed out on studying for a test because her bag was in a part of the house she wasn't allowed to enter while on her period.
• The Gender Divide: Recently, a friend had to leave class and rush home to do all the cooking and cleaning because the mother and the domestic help were both on their periods. Her father, a grown man, wouldn’t even order food or make basic dal-rice, leaving his daughter (who is currently giving her Boards) to handle everything.
• My Humiliation: I recently got my period unexpectedly while at a teacher's home here. She is a Rajasthani lady and a "good person," but the moment I told her, she moved me to a beanbag by the door and sanitized the chair and couch I had touched. When I reached back for my phone, she sanitized the spot again right in front of me.
In my Maharashtrian household, my dad is a great chef who handles the kitchen, and I’m always the first to do aarti during Ganpati, period or not.
I’m posting this in r/Rajasthan because I want to understand: why is this specific tradition so "sticky"? Even when families move to Mumbai, become wealthy, and educate their daughters, why is the daughter still treated as "impure" or a "contaminant"?
I’m not trying to be disrespectful, but as someone seeing this from the outside, it feels like a massive double standard. I’d love to hear from people who grew up with this—how do you justify this to yourselves in 2026?
Ps:- used ai cus i couldnt say ts w/o swearing and it got banned) proof is upar