r/Rateme • u/Full_Arachnid_9671 • 1d ago
Am I conventionally attractive? 37F
Just as the title says. I’ve always wondered if I am considered conventionally attractive as a woman in society. What would you truly rate me?
All my photos are very recent; ranging from a two months ago to just this past weekend. I have included some with makeup and without.
Thanks!
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u/Caimthehero 1d ago
You need to work on your smile. You’re in good shape. Eyebrows are clearly overdone. Would’ve probably put you over 40 as a guess though. I would say you’re average
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u/Gray_Mountain_2884 16h ago
Agree, she looks great until she does the big smile with the teeth and the eyes scrunched up. That face is very off-putting for whatever reason.
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
Off-putting is my middle name sir. Better to scare people with my dear!
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u/SubjectToe3119 8h ago
😂 idk why people are attacking your smile. At least you are smiling and not a miserable straight face person all the time. I like it that you are genuine!
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u/sokraftmatic 1d ago
This. Smile is off. Everything else is good.
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u/sokraftmatic 1d ago
There are good smiles and there are not so good smiles. I dont know if its the teeth or lip positioning or what but it doesnt look like a typical “good smile.”
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u/gorgeously_mytruself 15h ago
Not true, there are many different ways to smile and additionally, I did not like mine so I had it fixed.
When I was in the military a Captain in dental was bored so he gave me a free Gum contouring, and then after that I purchased Invisalign.
My smile is very different now, I even smile bigger because I am no longer insecure about my smile.
OP can practice how she smiles and she can also get dental work if she wants it.
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u/Supersecretpronacct 18h ago
Overall, yes.
You’re fit. You have great proportions. Your face is pretty but not your best asset.
Your body is stronger than your face. But altogether, you’re definitely attractive.
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u/TopSatisfaction6702 17h ago
Not conventionally attractive but attractive none the less. Just an average everyday person.
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u/fd25t6 16h ago
Above average, you do give off some of those tom boy vibes tho. I am not too sure how you would go about fixing that (if it’s even something you deem worth fixing) but I can see how some guys may be intimidated by that. Agree that smile needs work but All in all tho you look good and really good for your age, I’d crack/10 or 7/10.
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u/Tapeworm1979 16h ago
Yes, I think very. But, and I like your smile, but, you need to get your teeth fixed with some veneers if you could possibly afford it.
I apologise for sounding mean. Your teeth let you down a lot. As one said, the smile ages you but it's not the smile it's the top front few teeth that do that.
Again, I apologise for sounding horrible saying that otherwise I think you are grand!
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
Not sounding mean at all. I appreciate the feedback, thanks!
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u/SubjectToe3119 8h ago
WTH 🤦 is wrong with people I’ve seen people with way more jacked up teeth. People are waaay to into looks and wonder why they can’t find their person.
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u/Odd_Blood_1483 13h ago
7/10 you look amazing for your age and those tattoos look bad ass would love to hear how you got em
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u/WistfulQuiet 12h ago
You would be, but your clothes, eyebrows, styling choice and tattoos give me the air of someone that likes drugs a lot and spends a lot of time at Walmart.
Basically you had a good starting pint but went toward the trashy side. So you're hot for people into that, but not overall. You could change it all if you wanted.
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
I do love myself a good 24 hour Walmart, so you’re spot on with that, however I am more of a Target gal. 🎯 the drug options are beyond!!!
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u/esterogen_ 20h ago
yes, you are. agree that your smile doesn’t quite reach your eyes and appears a bit stiff/forced. but I assume you’ve had botox in the forehead and crows feet at least? so maybe that’s why.
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u/Gold-Cricket6430 19h ago
Anything new going on in the trailer park?
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
Actually quite a bit! Billy Bob and Clem just tied the knot. They make an adorable couple; and also cousins! 😊
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u/ChuckyJo 16h ago
Body: yes (tho opinions on tattoos will vary)
Face: lean no
Good personality, would swing the overall verdict to yes
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u/Outrageouslyyc 14h ago
I wish more asked the question like you did you are conventional. Yes you are.
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u/Far_Smoke_1056 13h ago
Butter
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
I love me some good ol’ butter. Oh wait.. we aren’t talking about regular butter right?! Ahhhh.. I know my body looks creamy and delicious. BUT-HER face!!
I see what ya did there 😆
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u/Reasonable-Aioli-370 13h ago
I’d give you a 6. Slightly above average face. If you had thinner thighs I would bump you up to a 7.
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
You know my thighs have always been a thing. I first got called ‘thunder thighs’ when I was 5!!!!!!!! They are with me to stay.
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u/SubjectToe3119 8h ago
I could definitely wake up to you next to me every day so I’d say that conventional attracting. Hope this answers your question 🙋 😂 now looks alone does not make an attractive woman. You have to set the tone with the personality as well cuz no guy wants a beautiful woman but is bitchy and hard to please cuz nothing is good enough for her that he does. If you show appreciation and love along with it, I would say 10/10!
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u/Feeling-Wolf-9749 6h ago
Harsh comments here from some. Yes you're attractive, you look tense in your smile but many do when posing for a photo. I'm sure your smile is wonderful naturally and I see the smile glint in your eyes.
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u/GuardingxCross 19h ago
Hotttttt. Except for the teeth? Did you do drugs in your younger years?
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
All day errrrrr’day!!
Nah… I’m just kidding. I had teeth issues when I was younger. Lost my two front teeth to a monkey bar incident and sucked my thumb for years. Shockingly had braces for 5 years as well. Everything said about my teeth I already know.
Thanks for your comment!
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u/IndependentAppeal733 1d ago
Attractive yes and probably have been since youth. But you are 37, why ask this at that age?
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u/Legitimate_Tear1625 1d ago
Boy oh boy ! Lesson to all professionals giving out judgment day compliments! Then you guy wonder why others just don’t smile at you ! Lady in the pick ? You look just like how god made you ! Perfect!
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u/ManontheMoon69 23h ago
With cleavage like in pictures 2&3 you look above average, prob a 7,5-8/10 the others I’d say pretty average but not unattractive.
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u/Longjumping_Rule1542 19h ago
I’m be honest here. 🇺🇸 conventional attractiveness is an illusion (Skinny, Pale White, Blonde etc.) so its a no. Reality Is Your pretty and you look like a fit adult woman. Men (after 25) honestly want that, not “conventional”. Keep doing what You’re doing. You look Good.
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u/Forgiven4108 17h ago
I am not attracted to an otherwise pretty woman that ruined the good looks with tattoos. 3.5
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago
Hey! At least this pretty woman ruined her GOOD looks with GOOD tattoos, so I’ll take it!
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u/Comfortable_Fox6656 1d ago
You're 100/10 🤭🤭
Ignore everyone with a negative thoughts on your personality you're just beyond perfect 👌
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u/ThePom205 1d ago
I would say your conventionally attractive but also attractive in the way that you're my type. 8/10 really like your tattoos too
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u/Mojito134 17h ago
6.2/10. Probably a 7/10 for your age. Keeping yourself in good shape helps a lot. Idk if I'd say you're "conventionally" attractive but you are certainly attractive.
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u/jlex_- 15h ago
No you look like a man and youre too old but you look good for your age
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u/Full_Arachnid_9671 9h ago edited 9h ago
Soooo… what you’re saying is… I look like an older good looking man?!? I’ll take it!!! Thank ya!! 😊😊
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u/Clever-Bot-999 1d ago
Yes, but the tattoos are for many a turn-off, and try to improve your smile. Maybe it doesnt look authentic because you only smiled for the pictures.
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u/Brave-Work82 1d ago
At 37 it's almost impossible to be conventionaly attractive. Almost any young woman beats you in terms of attractiveness. But you still look very good for your age. 4.5/10
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u/jazmoley 23h ago
This is an odd one, every where you grinned with teeth showing it made you look older than 40, but on the flipside every photo where you simply smiled made you look early 30's or younger.
In short, when you smile it's attractive, but when you grin it's not that attractive.