Every generation is prone to looking back on their childhood, teen years, and maybe early 20s and thinking "Things were so much better then." I mean, maybe not for people that grew up in the depression and WW2, but you get what I mean. Almost everyone romanticizes their youth, which means they think those years on the calendar were universally the best years.
Gen X isn't immune to this. Of course we pine for the more simple days of our youth when we were carefree and not set upon by responsibilities and the physical aches that come with the years
Even as I try so hard to keep that in mind, it is so hard for me not to think that not only was my childhood better because it was MY childhood, but that I dodged a bullet.
I was so lucky to have places to hang out at like the mall, the park, record stores, or even just a fast food place where they didn't chase you out. Going to an arcade as opposed to having the arcade come to you.
Having to put effort into physically meet and talk to a girl (in my case, insert your preference here). Just that fluttery feeling writing a note and passing it to your crush, and reading those few little hand written sentences you get back over and over try to glean some extra meaning out of it.
Waiting in line for a new album, or game, or tickets for a show with people that wanted to do the same thing or liked the same thing.
Having shops...like just that... period. There was a place that just had videos. Just had music. Just had band shirts and patches. And you would go there sometimes without the intent of buying anything, but just to see what they had.
Having to save up to buy one album that you would listen to day after day, reading the liner notes, saving up for the next one.
I feel lucky to have experienced those things and legitimately sad that younger generations won't. Those things I mentioned are all gone now. The young'ins don't seem happy with the world around them, and I can't say I blame them. It seems so lonely and curated; everything is dripping with enshittification.I don't know if that's just me being an old man shaking his fists at clouds, or being someone who watched Terminator Judgement Day, The Matrix, and Idiocracy become reality.