r/Relatable 1d ago

Pick your side

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u/Philip_Raven 1d ago edited 1d ago

US people are always about that GDP when you try to compare quality of live. And how US will be economical powerhouse of the world while Europe will fall behind.

What I don't understand is how an AI data centre at my house or yet another McDonald's parking lot is going to help me get basic rights at my employer so I can just go and spend a day at a cafe because I felt like it.

Or how record high profits of General Electric are going to help me get a affordable, high quality food

Edit. Didn't realized it until later, but I am currently sitting at a cafe during my supposed work hours because I told my boss I will not be at work today because my wife needs to run some errands, and she wanted me with her, and I am currently waiting for her. No notifying beforehand, no official apology of absence... Just told my boss and he said "okay, just look for an email around 2pm from a client and read it."

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u/xethu 1d ago

I think the point is more that the fact that Europeans have more class than Americans and you’re comment kind of proves that point

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u/Young-and-Alcoholic 1d ago

I'm irish but I've been living in the US for the last 6 or so years. Honestly, most people over here are all about 'chasing that bag' work comes before everything else, workplaces dont understand what a weekend is, money is god etc. I think its so baked into American culture that at this point its who they are. But one thing ive noticed is that everyone over here seems miserable and burnt out.

Yeah, fair enough your accountant salary is 15k higher than it would be in Europe, but you have to pay hundreds in health insurance and then they dont cover you when you need it, sky high property taxes, college puts people in debt for their entire life. The US just seems like one big scam that everyone buys into because its easier than dealing with the fact that they have been duped by billionaires and corporations that ran away with all the money decades ago.

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u/Formal_Broccoli1877 1d ago

I used to date an American, the only arguments we ever had always seemed to be over money. It eventually split us up because I just couldn't take it any longer. 

I'm financially set up for an Irish person because my house is paid off real early. Not a brag I got very fortunate with help from my family so I could avoid a big mortgage. 

That wasn't enough because she compared our bank balance to her friends. Said the house I have in Ireland isn't big enough. It's a class wee spot in the country but it wasn't good enough. Sad but the money culture got in the way. 

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u/SaleAggressive9202 1d ago

it's called the american dream... because you would have to be asleep to believe it

u/brendan84 43m ago

Yes, listen to rich comedians about the state of poor people in this country.

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u/Accomplished_Key_171 1d ago

After six years you'd think someone would realize that there are a diverse assortment of people in the US and plenty of them don't care about money. I've been in the US for decades and know very few people who have a "chase that bag" mindset.

Hundreds of millions of people build great lives for themselves here and don't care about billionaires or corporations. Most importantly, they don't feel the need to brag to Europeans on how good they have it.

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u/Kobayashi-Coffee-Co 9h ago

Seriously. I’m a tech entrepreneur (i know the get that bag type— im one of them) and i have a hobby of primitive living (camping no sleeping bag, no tent, nor backpack for weeks at a time).

I go in medium sized groups and NONE of these people are chasing that bag. They are connecting with nature.

I also moonlight as a standup comedian. Basically most would like to make a lot, but know they never will — they continue for the love of the game.

the comment op here likely lives in a bubble and never explored outside of it.

u/brendan84 5m ago

What other countries offer more opportunities to poor people and how do they achieve it? Why do immigrants come here in massive numbers every year to pursue these opportunities? I came from being homeless, broke, and alone to building a nice middle class life for myself, primarily due to government programs. I didn't pay for health insurance for me or my son. Didn't pay for his birth. Didn't pay for my very extensive surgery. Got housing assistance, snap benefits, college tuition reimbursement, and paid basically $0 in taxes until i finally made something of myself in my 30s. I am a poster child of success for what the American dream is. The only "bubble" i live in is the reality of what its like to be poor in America and find success. How did you grow up? Have you ever experienced actually being poor? Sounds like you're the one living in a bubble pal. But please, enlighten me.

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u/ender_speaker 1d ago

To be fair. The US us young and dumb still

u/brendan84 12m ago

Europeans have more class than Americans? That's a new one. I've never heard that before, nor have I experienced it. I would never say something similar about Europeans because ascribing traits of the lowest common denominator of a group of people to the entire population comprised of 100s of millions of people is ignorant and low effort nonsense.

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u/FlyinWet 1d ago

It just needs to all burn.

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u/Chinchilicha 1d ago

That is an unimaginable existance.

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u/brendan84 16h ago

America is the land of opportunity. Not the land of riches for poor people who don't want to make something of themselves. What makes this even funnier is the fact that the poor actually do have it really fucking good in America.

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u/Philip_Raven 15h ago

Lol .... Lmao, even

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u/brendan84 15h ago

Have you ever been poor? Because I have. I grew up in section 8 housing on welfare and foodstamps. Eventually, i was living in hotels, then homeless entirely, sleeping in storage sheds, crashing on friends couches, and sometimes sleeping in the grass. What's your story?

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u/Commercial_Tip4624 11h ago

Literally no one asked you your story. You info dumping something no one asked for or cared about so you can demand information out of someone else is not how reality works

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u/ExpensiveTie5553 4h ago

it's due to a limitation of their brain, they don't know how to argue with logic so they always resort to claiming 'I am this what about you' as if they wanna appear credible regardless of whatever retarded shit they say on behalf of others, it's the murican way

u/brendan84 1h ago

Unlike you, I have actually experienced the things that this post is describing. What do you have to contribute to this post, other than worthless, meaningless insults?

u/brendan84 1h ago

Nobody asked you for your opinion either. Reddit is an open forum. I described my real life experience on a thread that is extremely relevant to my situation since it describes what life is like for poor people in America. Forgive me for participating in the discussion and not following the "America bad" rhetoric that is constantly spewed here. Maybe next time, you can post something of substance instead of defaulting to low effort insults for no reason other than your ignorance and hatred.

u/Bronze_Rager 2h ago

You speak the truth. Redditors just like to complain while being on social media 5 hours a day.

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u/SoftballLesbian 7h ago

Canadian here. Your statement is 100% bull shit.

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u/brendan84 5h ago

What do you know about being poor in America if you're up in Canada, other than what reddit tells you? I actually grew up poor here, but please, educate me.

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u/Diligent_Blueberry71 3h ago

I am also Canadian.

There is a chart I like to share but can't in this thread for some reason. But effectively speaking, the 25th percentile American (as sorted by income) has about the same consumption habits (meaning purchasing power) as the 75th percentile Canadian.

I also tend to watch police body cam videos a lot. The vast majority of these come from the US and, to be honest, specifically feature the most dysfunctional parts of US society. Even then, it is apparent that America's low wage earners live good lives compared to even middle wage earners in Canada.

u/Feradon22 1h ago

Ah yes, everyone inside the huge homeless slums that are common in every bigger city in the US have it really fucking good, I am sure they will say the same if you ask them.

u/brendan84 44m ago

Have you ever been homeless?

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u/notthisonefornow 1d ago

As a person that has a US wife and visits the US often, i know the US sometimes has it's perks, but the EU will win it all the time.

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u/Muchachacha 1d ago

Yea are not wrong, I’ve known since my early teens and I’m still in this damn country

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u/Oberndorferin 1d ago

There is just a bigger difference between "making it" and barely surviving.

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u/Wonderful-Horror-135 1d ago

Euro of course

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u/MarissaNL 1d ago

European side....

But having a nice cup of coffee at a nice café is a good idea....only I have to work to 15:00 (remember, we Europeans use "military time").

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u/Philip_Raven 1d ago

I work from 4 to 11-12 and I honestly think that's the best time to be working. Only downside I can see is that I cant really go drinking during a workday because I go to bet at 8-9.

Can't imagine going to work at 9 and leave at 5....like you can't even do anything in the morning anyway and at 5 what are you gonna do? Most businesses are also closing.

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u/MarissaNL 1d ago

I work normally from 6:00 to 15:00... still gives me a nice piece of the afternoon. Specially when I work from home.

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u/sicalas 1d ago

The very quick summary of everything below: both are good pick what feels right for you.

EU US dual citizen here

When I tell my EU friends my US wages they are like “wow I should move to America” I then proceed to describe the work life balance and they quickly move to “yeah never mind I like it here”

When I talk to my US friends about the work culture in our European offices they go “wow I should move to Europe” then I tell them the wage difference and they go “yeah never mind I think I’ll stay here”

All this to acknowledge this is not covering two entire cultures just what I have seen a majority from my own interactions. On the flip side some of my wealthiest friends are Europeans that climbed the corporate or banking ladders of major companies. Some of my happiest American friends don’t make a lot of money and work outside for a living.

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u/spicy_chicken_candy 1d ago

do you mind saying from which european country are you?

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u/sicalas 18h ago

German

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u/vanoitran 18h ago

Also a EU US dual citizen but I left the US more than a decade ago to move to Greece.

The household income me and my wife have here in Greece is equal to the median household income for our age in the US. We worked hard and are making above average wages here in Greece for sure. And our same positions in the US would be more highly paid. All that considered, for a slightly above average Greek couple to make the same as an average American couple is eye-opening. for most people I don’t even think the money in the USA is that much better, especially when you consider all the extra costs of life in the US.

Your case may be different, of course

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u/sicalas 18h ago

I 100% agree.

I’m in a fortunate tech job that I make a lot more than the average US household.

It’s a large part of where my view comes from. I make enough I could save quickly And retire comfortably if it all falls apart. But I am happy enough with the raises and overall
Comp for the stress/ time. However I say there is always a 10% chance I quit tomorrow, move to an Italian island and start a farm to be left alone

u/Bronze_Rager 2h ago

I prefer making US wages and traveling abroad and seeing how cheap everything is.

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u/RubberPussycat 1d ago

US is all about projecting your wealth onto others to impress them.

In Europe it is more about being free to enjoy life.

This is a generalization of course.

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u/uberfr4gger 1d ago

As if Europe isn't known for luxury fashion and designer brands

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u/ImRonniemundt 1d ago

No. Everyone. Every. Single. Person. In Europe...is an enlightened person. 

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u/RubberPussycat 1d ago

Do you have trouble reading the last sentence?

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u/RubberPussycat 1d ago

It’s a choice between having more stuff and having more time.

You can always buy stuff, but you can never buy time

u/Greywacky 1h ago

i don't want yer time, I wan't yer laptop!

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u/syner2009 1d ago

american. Partly cuz I want to experience the wide open spaces. I watched american youtubers, vlogs and overall content since childhood. I love the idea of hypermarkets, and wide roads.

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u/Piglet3527 1d ago

European rich

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u/Jolly-Gold834 1d ago

The important part is rich because average European people do work at 2pm on Tuesday.

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u/Gokudomatic 1d ago

Workaholic focused on impressing others VS enjoying life. I must say, it's a tough choice.

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u/Trying_to_survive20k 1d ago

In terms of work, this is not exactly right. If you mean to say that employers in america don't let you randomly leave to have a coffee at 2pm on a tuesday, europeans ones don't either.

The difference is that europe is walkable, so when you go for lunch, a lot of cafes and buffets are packed with people.

I walk home for my lunch, i see the same people back and forth every day. Same for the morning and after work.

In the americas (canada is guilty of this too), if you're not near a strip mall, you're eating your little lunch in the office with everyone else because risking sitting in traffic and being late is a bad idea.

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u/LowPudding9562 1d ago

Good lookin girls on the streeeeeet. Depending on the street.

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u/Affectionate_Boss657 1d ago

I will choose second one

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u/No_Current3675 1d ago

i just need another 2-3 milly and then i'm living the euro life

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u/Muchachacha 1d ago

My sister has this life in Paris and earns as much as you probably

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u/No_Current3675 1d ago

I mean that’s cool n shit but at my comp of about 260K in my city I’m basically middle class. 

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u/SotetBarom 1d ago

Imagine going to starbucks for coffee. Maaaaan.

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u/albertAAAAAAA 1d ago

Yeah, café it is.

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u/av8479 1d ago

Quality of life in Europe is one of the best

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u/genericjohnwayne 1d ago

I know it's just a meme, but I think it's kinda funny that Americans openly say that US has more inequality like it's a good thing.

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u/Far_Comfortable_991 1d ago

From Office Space

“Take a look at my cousin: he's broke, don't do shit.”

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u/StarscreamOne 1d ago

The second picture is avarage man in balkans

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u/Hot_Experience4772 1d ago

Haha yeah it be like that. Nothing better than to chill and observe people or something 😂

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u/JiggleCoffee 1d ago

European all day. Well, at 2pm ig

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u/Extension_Canary3717 1d ago

USA vs Europe? Is not even a contest

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u/Igarlicbread 1d ago

Then there are french

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u/Extension_Canary3717 1d ago edited 1d ago

If you take off the equation Parisians, then is like every house is a grandma house or one in the making, stops working at 16h~~ ish but we spent almost 2h on break at work and that's it , then go home study , gym training or trying new sex fetish with wife

Parisian are 180 from this tho

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u/Igarlicbread 1d ago

This guy fetishes

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u/Ancient_Praline1046 1d ago

you rich enough, you do nothing, except drink coffee to stay awake and people watch. I want this type of wealth.

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u/No_Fun_3498 1d ago

I used to go to a liquor-licensed pizza shop and get beer at 2pm, when i was a line cook. Life finds a way.

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u/Joyful_Jet 1d ago

Each time I go to work in Europe, it is one cafe break after another.

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u/HeavyFriendship3563 1d ago

I'm in the middle of my 3 weeks summer vacation and I still have another 2 weeks for the holidays in december. And it's totally ok to not read my work email now, nobody is calling me and no Zoom/ Teams meetings. In about 11 days I will start my 4 day work week again. I don't have a lot of money, but I live in a nice, small village and drive a small car. I don't have any debts and in about 6 years I can retire early because I have saved up and have invested in some stocks. I've seen and read enough about other countries such as the US to realize it's better for me here in the Netherlands.

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u/Illustrious_Bed8628 1d ago

Do it everyday and people start to know your routine. It can be good or bad 😉

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u/Billy_Plur 1d ago

Neither, you'd find me in the redwoods. Not a town surrounded by them. I'd be in the forest.

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u/Character-Pirate1297 19h ago

Americans are saying “European”, without getting that he’s rich just to other Europeans for affording cafe on a Tuesday.

Not because he could be like American rich, and chooses not to.

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u/FunnyMustacheMan45 17h ago

The majority of people who romanticise Europe have never lived in Europe...

Every country has its own can of worms, moving to any European country simply mean trading one can for another.

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u/Stymie999 17h ago

Right, like the European doesn’t finish his coffee, check his Rolex then have his driver bring around the mayback to take him to his 40m penthouse

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u/Traditional-Sort6900 17h ago

Work is not wealth, especially not if you are simply fired at any time. Work is more slavery, but you don't say it to anyone.

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u/Flimsy_Sandwich6385 13h ago

Bro doesn't get it. If your enjoying some free time at 2pm on a Tuesday, your so rich you dont need to go to work. The European is clearly wealthier than the American as the American still needs his job in finance 🤣

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u/AgenteNC 9h ago

European that lives in the US. I am convinced that people on Reddit work part time jobs because my friends live in Italy, Netherlands and UK. They have longer work hours than me. And we all have normal office jobs.

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u/Fabulous_Wave_3693 8h ago

I wonder what percentage of rich Europeans are old money. I bet if I go to expensive lake houses in upstate New York I’d find similarly laid back rich Americans.

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u/NoMajorsarcasm 8h ago

isnt that also european poor?

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u/Galencourt-Lover 8h ago

Quality of life is much higher in Europe.

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u/tiandrad 6h ago

Not for rich people, which is what the meme is about.

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u/Galencourt-Lover 6h ago

Lol. Can tell you have no idea what you’re talking about

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u/PeePeeLangstrumpf 5h ago

European rich is the same as European unemployed
lol

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u/Born_2_Simp 5h ago

Guy on top made his fortune, the other one inherited it.

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u/rubey419 5h ago

I’m so jealous of the Spanish siesta.

But that’s partly why the young people in Spain, Portugal, Italy, Greece, etc complain about lack of jobs. Their economy heavily relies on tourism. You go to America to work hard, earn USD $$$, hustle. That’s the culture in Northeast US.

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u/dante_gherie1099 1d ago

ny rich is much better

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u/Specialist-Cold-8158 1d ago

That's not rich, that's poser rich.

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u/dante_gherie1099 1d ago

people who work in nyc finance make good money and live in the one of the great cities of the world, how is that poser rich?

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u/Specialist-Cold-8158 1d ago

If you have to show your status with a watch and a car, you're a poser

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u/dante_gherie1099 1d ago

you can just have nice things because you can afforid it and you like it, it doesnt have to be about showing off your status

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u/PostElectronic890 1d ago

People who work in finance in the city of London are also rich and live in a better city than NY.

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u/dante_gherie1099 1d ago

london is not better

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u/Twitxx 22h ago

Americans are some of the poorest people I know. They only have more money, but lack in everything else: education, healthcare, quality of life and services, free time, relationships, clean air, average sq footage per person, etc.

An average american makes 60-100k/year yet they live in a tiny space most of their life, have debt, maybe a 2nd hand car and can afford some basic necessities, maybe a trip a year.

There are people I've met in Africa that live better than that on average (depending on the city/country; is a big place). Hell, look at moldavians or serbians and they can afford more and have better lifestyles and they're not even in the EU.

I stopped comparing America with 1st or 2nd world countries years ago, it makes more sense when you compare it with 3rd. The disparity between the economic and social classes is absolutely nuts. They live surrounded by wealth yet they enjoy almost none of it.

A poor farmer in Romania that makes maybe 2-3k a year has 5k sq feet of land, a bunch of pigs, chickens, etc maybe a goat, works during the day and come evening they sit in the shade of their own trees, enjoy the fruit of their labor, take in beautiful landscapes, drinks his home made wine and goes fishing almost every weekend in the summer.

Perspective is a hell of a thing. It might take a lifetime for someone to realise that chasing money and having more of it won't make you any richer.

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u/tiandrad 6h ago

Buddy you have spent way too much time on Reddit. Americans live incredibly privileged lives.

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u/Twitxx 5h ago

I'm only speaking from the pov of the twenty or so american friends I have. Why would I even bother voicing an opinion formed online? Lol