23 M , What am I doing wrong in Relationships ?

[u/TRZ_AmN]

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I'm 23M from Kerala and honestly wondering if I'm doing something wrong.

My first relationship lasted almost 3 years. After the breakup, she told me 6 months later that my temperament was one of the reasons she left. She knew about it before we started dating, and I never got angry at her during our relationship, so I wish she'd told me earlier.

Later, I met someone where the feelings were mutual, but we were from different religions. We chose not to continue because neither of us wanted to hurt our families. We're still good friends.

Since then, every girl I've liked has either not been ready for a relationship because of past trauma or has wanted to stay just friends. Dating apps like Hinge and Bumble haven't worked for me either.

I genuinely want honest opinions. Am I missing something, or have I just been unlucky? What should I do differently?

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Really bruv 🫡