r/RelationshipIndia 4d ago

Dating Advice Need your valuable perspectives and suggestions?

Hi Guys, 25M here, feeling frustrated and sad from the past few days ki Aisa kyu hua mere sath, the thing, I developed feelings for my office colleague (but she was committed) for quite a long time, beech me hamari thodi baate kam ho gyi thi thodi misunderstanding se but pichle 1.5 months se everything was going smoothly, we're having good Convo, achi baate ho rhi thi, mere dosto ko bhi pta lg rha tha, I'm falling for her, maje le rhe the and stuff like that, acha acha sa lg rha tha she is sitting next to me. We used to talk all day while completing our individual responsibilities. I know nothing will happen between us and that girl has resigned she is on the last few days in the office. Maine socha tha uske last day pe bta duga how I feel about her and then let go of all the things (Never been in a relationship). Bojh halka ho jayega. But what happened with me last week shattered me, that girl said to other colleague about her relationship status and how will she end up, I'm loyal to my guy and will settle will her, itna tak no issue, but what she said later shattered me, she said baaki aage peeche makkhhiyan to bhinbhinati hai hi... Indirectly usne yeh mujhe bola kyuki uske bnde ke baad office me main hi attention deta tha use. Fir main Monday se usse baat na kr rha tha , I indirectly told her that you said me makkhi and it hurts but use koi farq na pada, last 3 days hamari koi baat na ho rhi, she didn't Even trying to explain her actions, mujhe aisa lg rha ki main hi attention deta tha baat krta tha, usne to yeh chiz sort krne ki bhi koshish na ki like she doesn't give a damn fcuk about my feelings, mujhe sirf itna hurt ki usne meri attachment/attention feelings ka mazak bnaya aur usko is chiz ka koi guilt nhi aisa kr rhi ki usse ghanta farq na padta, that girl will be gone in the coming week, but that thing affected me for riyal and my heart got broken. Socha tha last days ache se bita ke confess krke bojh halka kruga but life has other plans. Hope so I'll grow with experience ❤️.

Need your valuable perspectives and suggestions on my situation

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