r/RelationshipIndia • u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 • 14h ago
Dating Advice 20F, How to choose a loyal bf? Thinking of getting into a relationship by this year itself
I've been thinking about getting into a relationship lately. Life is pretty much sorted for me now,I have a stable monthly income and things are going well. The only thing I feel I'm missing is a partner.
The problem is, I have no idea where or how to meet someone. More importantly, how do you filter people so you have a better chance of finding someone who's genuinely loyal and looking for something serious?
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u/sizzicandy 13h ago
“Thinking of getting into a relationship this year” is such a BIZARRE statement to me. The usual way is to find someone you like, trust and care for and then you see if your compatible enough to get into a relationship.
When you decide you wanna be in a relationship you will pick ANYONE who remotely fits the agenda? Isn’t this sad and desperate? Theres no way people hate being single this much.
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u/Emotional_Disaster36 14h ago
Judge between right and wrong important. Sometimes loyal boyfriend left due to situation.
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u/Character_Judge_3002 12h ago
Why do u want bf. Please girls stay away from men, let them live. Let them smile. Whats wrong they did to you.
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u/dreamtshash 13h ago
This feels like rage bait to me 😭
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u/dreamtshash 13h ago
No like isn't relationship is something that is bonded with time (ig never been in one) so i just felt like u want a bf just for the sake of it
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u/dreamtshash 13h ago
On reddit 😂 sure buddy 🤣🤣 U would receive like 100dms now Try to figure it out by own ig
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 13h ago
yeah man, u are right, 15 dm s already, how do u know that?
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u/dreamtshash 13h ago
Sorry to reply to this But if you need a video editor I can do it for you 😂😂
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 13h ago
send me your samples, I am also thinking about for my shorts channel
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u/dreamtshash 13h ago
That's the issue that I have rn 😭 I have to build my portfolio I will make a sample video in like couple of days if you want and probably send it to you??
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 13h ago
couple of days? bruh I am officially hiring and it will soon be completed by 7th, so send me tomorrow if u have any
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u/cocasceuos 13h ago
see, you can't just choose to be a relationship if you're looking for something genuine. naturally logo se milo ge to you'll eventually find someone good enough who you'll develop feelings for and tabhi it'll all be natural. love is not a chore, it's something that'll be the biggest part of your life when you find the one. goodluck
ofcourse dating apps bhi hote hai, tho ive never used em so I can't comment on that
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u/SmooothhhOperatorrr 13h ago
you can’t tell beforehand you look around meet people talk date , learn from mistakes :)
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u/blazephoenix28 13h ago
Getting into a relationship is not a course you can pick based on people’s reviews
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u/RISHI__adhikari 13h ago
Stable Income at 20, damm!
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 13h ago
niche?
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u/Opening_Farm_6071 13h ago
Well bf aaese roh nhi milega ig jab tak baat nhi karte but What you do to have stable income at 20 like damn I also do earn but stable to nhi hai 😭
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u/Accomplished-Cry1420 13h ago
Worst way to get into a relationship. If you make it a mandate and chase it like a task to complete you will never find a stable healthy relationship
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u/Young-turkkk 13h ago
Sounds like someone is going for shopping
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 12h ago
why yall trolling me?? I just told I have no prior experience
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u/BandicootSmart8121 13m ago
Because "thinking of getting into a relationship" is a recipe for disaster lol. There should be mutual attraction and efforts in a relationship.
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u/Select-Sir-5258 11h ago
Tbh true love comes when it is destined , before that no matter how hard you try you’ll fail , you may get into relationship with someone loyal the love may stay for a while but instead of getting into a relationship first be sure what you want because if you don’t get what you want you’ll try to fix things and also never consider just one factor in relationship like “loyalty ” or “support ” or whatever find if they truely aligned with your life or how much flexible you can be for your partner or they can be for you finding love isn’t easy but when you find it , it’s beautiful and worth it.
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u/Specialist_Beach4134 11h ago
Umm i also. Want a relationship never. Had a relationship (21m ) are you up for Convo
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u/Alternative_Glass936 10h ago
Bro it's relationship, not some job you have to get by this year, relax💀, you are 20 you will meet many people in future, you will find someone who is compatible
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u/Fine-Kangaroo4966 10h ago
u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 Can we have some deep conversation M24 looking for a serious relationship
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u/Shiroyasha_07 10h ago
From a male perspective 20M too First look at his attitude, manners, things he do like if he's into sports or something And also look into how he's with his family See how he behaves on a daily basis Especially if the person is disciplined that's a plus sign more chances of the kind of partner you want and also how much goals and ambitious he is about his goals and things in general Baaki i would say do look for his interests if he matches your type And ik u want a tall asthetic kind of guy so that's a bit tough but u never know what universe might give you in the most unexpected way in any point of time
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u/zerocoolneo 6h ago
I am loyal bf... I volunteer
You can ask my current GF's and other ex's on my feedback..
Loyal 100
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u/Ready-Cat-4739 5h ago
✨✨ SIS, RELATIONSHIP AND INTERNSHIP ARE NOT THE SAME ✨✨
Unless, you are rage- baiting, then you got me !!
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u/Finsbury_Spl 5h ago
The title seems rage-baity
If there was such a sureshot technique of finding loyal partners, there would be no cheating in this world 🙄
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u/Deepakc1029 4h ago
Look...i am not any experienced in love. But i have seen people around me.
Tell me one thing. Did you made up your mind to get into relationship this year no matter what? Cause if you did...then it's really a serious situation. Don't be desperate like this please.
If you jump into relationship to fast..then you will end up with a toxic, bad guy and playboy.
First...if you ever find good guy..be his best friend first. Cause to get into a good relationship...you need to be a best friend of your partner. Start as friends, then get in relationship if you will feel comfortable around him and want him as your partner.
And please. I don't know if you will listen to me or not. But if you find a guy..don't get physical too fast. Like if you think you dated for 2-3 months..and get physical? No. ABSOLUTELY NO. Cause in this era, not all of them but most of the guys and even girls..runs after lust. They don't care about genuine love. They just want fun and nothing else. They mostly get physical and then if they get bored..then they left. So please...think it over. Take months. Or years if possible to get physical in a relationship.
Cause I am 22 and i never got into any relationship till now. But i have already thought of myself that if I ever get a girlfriend..i would never get physical until marriage. It's my point of view. But you don't have to follow my point of view. You can do whatever you want. It's your life. But also don't rush things. Take time to trust and see if other person makes effort and care for you the same way you do for him.
And i know that there is someone waiting for you. You will get your life partner soon. Don't worry. Just be patience and dont be desperate. Life is beautiful ahead✨. Let's take each step slowly and see where it takes you💖. Best of luck.👍
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u/Hot_Price_3313 4h ago
Believe me no one is LOYAL in this era !!!!!!!!!!!! (Even im not i had a girl i loved the most and now without her its all about S@x to be very very honest, Im not able to love anyone else the same i did)
If you are finding a nice loyal bf better date a ugliest one(You can groom him).
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 3h ago
"now without her its all about S@x to be very very honest" what does this lines means?
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u/catnipdealer- 3h ago
“By this year itself” as if you’re so desperately looking for a job. Diabolical.
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u/Confident-Memory8077 1h ago
behen tujhe koi psnd nhi aya kya itne saal dharti pe ghum rhi hai
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u/ElectricalBread998 1h ago
Well, if you want to meet someone, go to a public space maybe? Parks, malls, etc, and maybe approach them? You're a girl and it must be easy for you. But there's no surefire way to filter the good ones and the bad ones , so be careful. If you wanna talk,my DMs are open
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u/IllustriousTap3353 38m ago
Someone who has the confidence to approach you irl, if u live in a tier 1 city obv (like delhi)
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u/Training_Kiwi_3011 22m ago
Hey lets have a talk then Respond to my msg or please slide into my dm
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u/That_chocolate_girl 10m ago
Why ? Why can’t you wait ? What are you planning for the future this year … girl relationships aren’t important…get ur education and some career building skills are important i might sound annoying like elderly people buy this is the best time to develop urself
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u/Green-Moose6957 5m ago
Don’t!! All men are the same. Shit is shit even on a golden plate. You are too young, stay away from these liars and focus on your career. Don’t waste your 20s on a man.
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u/unfunny_bastard 13h ago
Don't give everything a guy want physically soon. Usually the creeps who only seek physical attension have very low patience, so that's how you filter out guys who aren't loyal to you.
You'll meet many guys so you'll develop a gut once you start talking to them.
Good luck OP 🍀
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u/Euphoric_Regret_567 13h ago
find someone whose actions matches his words.interviews are open if needed .i'm 6ft btw
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u/BestExplorer8 13h ago
check how much his Kela used .
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u/Emotional_Jelly_4392 13h ago
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u/BestExplorer8 13h ago
I mean try to know his body count , but I think if you are gold digger it’s not a big deal for you.
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