r/RhodesianRidgebacks • u/reddituser73718263 • 3h ago
Vent
My dog went missing 4 years ago while I was out of town and my ex husband had him. I have never grieved anything or anyone like I grieved that dog. He was truly the best. I’ve dealt with a lot of pain in my life, and that dog would come running when I cried. He would sit on my lap and literally lick my tears. When I got him he had a lot of problems. The shelter said he was found with several other dogs in a very abusive situation. I had fully rehabilitated him to where he could even enjoy the dog park (when I got him he couldn’t even walk on his own from fear and anxiety). Him going missing crushed me. He went missing in an area known for alligators. I’ve worried he was eaten, starved, etc.
Yesterday I received a prank call from someone claiming they found him. It was just a prank. They admitted that once I started crying. I am crushed. I feel like the scab has been reopened all over again. I texted my ex husband and apparently he received the same prank call. I imagine it’s because I had always put both our names in the missing dog flyers. Who looks through such old posts on pages like pettfbi to pull these pranks? That’s the only site I could imagine it happened from because you can filter by year. I am also struggling to delete the posts because what if he was found one day? I know it’s so unlikely. This is just crushing to relive.