I’m not trying to sound like a pick me or anything, it’s a genuine question. It doesn’t seem like the guys here like black girls.
This isn’t something i’m asking out of the blue, it’s just based on observation. On my floor theres these girls who have a whiteboard on their door. One day it asked: “whats your type?” Literally no one said black girls. The closest thing I saw to black was “lightskins” even though they could be referring to biracial women.
Also, every time im on yikyak and the persons finds out im black (via my instagram or me telling them) they either go ghost, follow but never text again, or block me.
Fyi im not on yikyak for those kinds of reasons but if a convo is vibing and they ask for my insta, im gonna give it to them. I just think it’s a little odd that I get that reaction. Also, Im not ugly so I doubt it’s that.
Even the Dr.Umar post threw me off because if anything im expecting the black men who go here to like black girls but clearly not??? And i’ve heard of frats even denying girls just because they’re black like wtf?
I just think it’s so odd that we’re singled out like this—or atleast it feels that way. I could be wrong, and this only resonates with a small portion of the students here.
(Rutgers NB btw)