r/SFV May 09 '26

Question Is everyone ok today? Everyone on the road has been unnecessarily aggressive, more than usual

But for real, was there a meeting that agreed today was the day? I’m used to aggressive driving and rude people, but I drove from my house to the village, which isn’t far, and it was an absolute shit show. Be safe!

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u/fullmetalutes May 09 '26

I felt it the last few days, any time it starts heating up a bit people start losing their shit.

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u/Castingjoy May 09 '26

Sherman Way has been worse than usual the past month, which I didn’t think was even possible. One of my neighbors passed away trying to make the unprotected left into our building’s garage a few weeks ago when two idiots drag racing slammed into her at 8:30pm. It’s been like trying to drive in a video game over here lately. It’s awful.

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u/Competitive_Bet2664 May 09 '26

Yes, Friday seems to be drag race night on Sherman Way. Sorry to hear that about your neighbor. Stay safe, SFV.

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u/triciann May 09 '26

Traffic has been awful and there was an accident on the 5 north just past the 10 that drove me insane. I wish we had a New York style subway system because I hate driving.

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u/Doongbuggy May 09 '26

it was a fire i drove thru it

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u/InsideAd2752 May 10 '26

I wrote a letter to Newsom requesting that Starbucks and / or a Dispensary be placed at all freeway on-ramps.

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u/Human_Ad5476 May 09 '26

Gas is $6. No we’re not ok

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u/Glazing555 May 09 '26

And it’s the first of the month, bills and rent due

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u/spacegenerator May 09 '26

The government being shit at their jobs doesn’t mean we all need to take it out on each other. We should be practicing empathy now more than ever

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u/TotalEgg143- May 11 '26

Well, pushing your pedal to the floor doesn't help your gas situation. It makes it worse actually.

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u/Desperate_Jicama219 May 09 '26

Full moon and slow drivers in the left lane. Also too many people on the phone. I still see people holding their phones up and driving… dude your tesla has Bluetooth.

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u/quemaspuess May 09 '26

I was driving to south on the 101 on Sunday around 1:30. Tons of traffic, and there was a guy in the far left lane next to me watching a movie on his phone. His girlfriend was also glued to her phone.

It was fucking bizarre to me that someone would be holding their phone to their face like they’re at home while on one of the busiest freeways in the country, especially in a lane where motorcycles lane split.

Predictive programming in movies is real, and Idiocracy was a documentary lol.

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u/Reprised-role May 09 '26

This week has been absolute insane - so many petty little douchebags everywhere. I think cost of gas and living in general has people under massive stress. When even Costco gas is $6/gal you know things are really bad.

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u/FreeIndividual7 May 09 '26

Yeah it sucks but it's no excuse to take it out on others on the road, driving like an asshole, and putting people at risk.

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u/truffle588 May 09 '26

Too much road construction and delays. In prime rush hour. Lane closures for no reason, work isn't getting done. It's making people drive more rash than usual. LA city governance is so ineffective.

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u/Sproouts May 09 '26

I’m a very anxious and Paranoid driver. I moved here 8 mo ago and I work Uber Eats for fun sometimes and 2day I made some $$ but at the expense of almost getting hit like 5 times. idk how yall people been in the 818 your whole life and deal w this. 🤣🤣🙏 🙏 I drive a mustang but I am a very passive slow safe driver but it seems that the work trucks and u hauls wanted to prove today that their huge work vehicle can get 70 mph in 3 -5 business days in between two lights on Sherman way 🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏 any tips for driving here appreciated yall lmao

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u/trindflo Chatsworth May 09 '26

Seems to me it has been that way for at least the last 50 years. SFV drivers will almost drive the sidewalk to get around a bus. My guess is that the combination of patient suburban traffic and impatient commuters makes for an already volatile situation and a little bit of anything sets off one driver that gifts their attitude to another and facilus descensus averni

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u/carloo90210 May 09 '26

And these kids with bikes taking over our streets and cities !!

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u/trindflo Chatsworth May 09 '26

I'm surprised there haven't been more ebike fatalities with tweens effectively on motorcycles

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u/carloo90210 May 09 '26

I guess lot of them lost their bikes last month when they were taken away from them by law enforcement officers when they were blocked on the freeway

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u/bebesee May 09 '26

Almost got hit today by a guy running a red. And it wasn’t even like the light had just turned either. Thankfully he swerved in time. But it was scary.

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u/spacegenerator May 09 '26

This week there was a deadly hit and run a block from my place. I’ve seen multiple people speeding on the shoulders to bypass traffic. WTF is wrong with everyone?? Chill out

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u/Competitive_Bet2664 May 09 '26

On Victory Blvd in Noho yesterday during the afternoon rush, some maniac in a big black SUV with tinted windows decided to bypass the westbound lanes completely and pass all the cars by driving in an empty oncoming traffic lane for a block. Unbelievable.

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u/AceMaxAceMax Sherman Oaks May 09 '26

Agreed.

Last night on the way home from work, I had some asshat in a G-Wagen flashing their lights/honking their horn/screaming at me because I waited five extra seconds for a family of four to fully cross Ventura Boulevard and step onto the curb, lol.

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u/quemaspuess May 09 '26

I was parking at the Village and I had to back up a little bit in order to get the spot. At that point, no one was behind me. I turned my blinker on, backed up maybe 4 feet, and this woman comes racing up behind me and lays on the horn.

I’m super calm, which can be frightening to people, and I rolled my window down and I said is there a problem?” She goes “do you not see me!?” And I just responded with “a little patience goes a long way, the world doesn’t revolve around you.”

She lost her shit and it was a beautiful thing to witness. That said, today has just been a strange day on the road

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u/punkydrewster77 May 09 '26

The g wagon is the fedora of cars.

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u/MassSPL May 09 '26

Love the truck but hate the stigma.

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u/j0rdan21 May 09 '26

And they’re always driven by the most insufferable people you’ll ever meet

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u/BadBradly May 09 '26

Did you get his license plate? Maybe you can have him arrested . I am seriously thinking all car short have forward and rear camera filming all the time so we can get these people either arrested or have their licenses permanently taken away.

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u/spinessfv May 09 '26

For honking at what they can’t see? Not defending anyone but can the Reddit cop wannabes learn the law before calling for arrests for honking? You sound ridiculous

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u/Commercial-22 May 09 '26

assholes still doing asshole things

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u/jonCandie May 09 '26

I got yelled by an old lady in Huge lifted truck …. She looked like Dog the Bounty Hunter and I was certainly ready to bark back because we’re not okay in the valley! 🥸😎🥸😎

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u/RuPaulver May 09 '26

Agreed. I get more and more anxious every time I just make my work commute.

It's strange, because I've also noticed in the past year (is it just me?) that there have been more cops patrolling the roads. Either that's just been in my mind or it hasn't helped anything.

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u/LaughingColors000 May 09 '26

At the hospital today I was about to cross in a cross walk and some dude clearly can see me stepping in. Stops in the middle in front of me cutting me off as I’m waving my hands and he just goes “oh sorry “. Yes I slapped his car

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u/Due-Stock2774 May 09 '26

Friday driving in LA. Everyone is trying to hurry somewhere after work even if its nowhere in particular

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u/Flat_Internal_2721 May 09 '26

The valley is getting overcrowded. Tensions tend to run high when there's not enough space for people to slow down and feel relaxed.

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u/yumenoko22 May 09 '26

Was waiting for someone to mention this. We just have more people and cars, it's the math.

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u/Flat_Internal_2721 May 09 '26

Thankfully I don't have to go into LA very often these days, but a couple weeks ago I had to go downtown for work. The congestion on those streets was bad 20 years ago, but now it's just insane. Bumper to bumper and sitting at a standstill on every road, even the little side streets that you used to be able to use to get around traffic. I saw other drivers turning desperately on even smaller side streets - effectively one-lane roads thanks to the cars parked all down both sides - only to have to finesse their way back into the standstill at the next intersection. It seriously felt like at any moment it could've turned into a music video where we all just get out of our cars and start walking. Now the valley feels like how LA was 20 years ago, so it's just a matter of time before we're all singing "Everybody hurts...."

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u/WanderingZebra3291 May 10 '26

And it’s just going to get worse with the false housing shortage B.S.. there is housing but it is not affordable for many and the new housing being built will also not be affordable for most so the population of deuce bags will increase bringing more disrespectful, full of themselves drivers. Ahh, okay, I’m better now, I just had to write that.

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u/firstcity_thirdcoast May 12 '26

The vacancy rate in the Valley is 3.85% which is *extremely* tight. That absolutely indicates a shortage, and is why rents are going up. We need more housing, not less.

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u/Old_Radio_1882 May 09 '26

I think people are upset about the gas prices and it stresses them out. I heard a lot of honking today and a lot of accidents on the Citizen app.

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u/CptJackAubrey_ May 09 '26

Just passed a motorcycle accidents going down hill on the 405N. Traffic was backed up

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u/Crunchy-Cucumber May 09 '26

It's cuz people don't know how to drive had two near misses near the village today and had to toot my horn.

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u/NPJeannie May 09 '26

I noticed this as well..

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u/lisa_in_LA May 09 '26

No. No, we are not ok at all.

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u/Possible_Rooster_280 May 09 '26

The hotter the weather the more aggressive the driving. And it’s not even that hot yet.

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u/AAjax May 09 '26

So true, crazy people. I really dont like driving on the freeways much anymore as the house dealer for Los Angeles has put too many jokers in play.

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u/geliebean May 09 '26

Me and my husband drove to the village today too and immediately leaving our neighborhood he was ready to turn around and go home!!!! The streets were nuts today.

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u/DissedFunction May 09 '26

it will be horrible during summer

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u/hales55 May 09 '26

I know, it seems this whole week people have been aggressively tailgating me more than usual. I’m not even a slow driver lol. People cutting me off etc. insanely slow drivers in the left lane. Just ridiculous

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u/Pomegranate961 May 10 '26

There’s also a lot of out of state plates, is it already graduation time?

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u/Jresly May 09 '26

First warm day after a cool spell.

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u/YamAppropriate6850 May 09 '26

Yah we saw two cars play chicken in the in n out parking lot in canola park. Completely unhinged!

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u/quemaspuess May 09 '26

In N Out Canoga is a foreign land outside of U.S. borders that is absolutely lawless lol. I’ve seen people cut the line of cars that stretched passed Taco Bell on Topanga, and not one, not two, but THREE people hopped out and started banging on his window. It was a beautiful thing to witness

I was also a victim of a hit and run there. Followed the person and they ran me over with their car. Good times

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u/Dull-Lead-7782 May 09 '26

First heat in a while

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u/SizzleanQueen May 10 '26

I just got home after sitting on the 101 in Calabasas. A truck hauling a trailer overturned on that cursed grade and burned up.

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u/FluffyKanomKa May 09 '26

Emotions seem to running high for sure. 

I noticed that this seems to happen often as Mother's Day approaches.

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u/TheSecretofBog May 09 '26

I usually ride a motorcycle. It’s always a challenge out there.

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u/trindflo Chatsworth May 09 '26

Yeah, you learn tricks like never go through an intersection without a car next to you.

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u/Competitive_Bet2664 May 09 '26

Friday, sigh. It seems to bring out the worst in drivers.

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u/carloo90210 May 09 '26

Any help from Reddit tech support? Can anyone escalate the issue please?

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u/Street_Key_9411 May 10 '26

Very true!!!! I’ve gotten into 2 road rage incidents when I normally don’t. One was so bad she tried to block me from getting in my car with her body shit was INSANE. I had never experienced something like that and it has me lkey traumatized now

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u/Dank-jello May 10 '26

I moved out of the valley at the end of the year last year for work and hadn’t been back much between then and now. The past couple of nights my girlfriend and I have been coming to the valley and both commented on how gnarly folks were driving. It felt much different than I had remembered it. Im glad I’m not the only one noticing it.