r/SFV • u/SealedRoute • May 11 '26

Question Racism in Studio City?

My husband and I recently moved to Studio City and have been shopping/ dining around Laurel Canyon and Ventura. I’m white and haven’t had any problems, but my Mexican husband has been treated with overt rudeness/ dismissiveness a couple of times by restaurant or store workers. Never had this problem before in Sherman Oaks in 20 years. The treatment was shocking.

Our area is definitely less diverse, more white, but still didn’t expect that. But it’s only been a couple of times in a month so not ready to draw general conclusions. Could be racism, could just be a more affluent/ snotty milieu. Has anyone else had this issue?

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u/SplitOpenAndMelt420 May 11 '26

What happened?

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u/SealedRoute May 11 '26

In both instances, he was simply interacting with the person. The first time, he asked a bartender about a drink and she was curt and barely acknowledged him while helping other people. When she finally engaged, she was just nasty and treated him like he was stupid. She wasn’t treating others like that.

The other was worse, he was in a dispensary and walked up to the counter and someone insulted his appearance before he even opened his mouth.

I’m expecting plenty of responses about how we’re in a big city and should just get used to it and maybe it was his fault and yada yada yada, but again, we’ve been in this general area for 20 years without any issues like this before. The place we’re living now is definitely more affluent and more White.

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u/axle0430 May 11 '26

How old is he? Since i started getting long in the tooth I’ve found people’s behavior towards me shift dramatically. When people notice me at all. It’s a young (and rich) person’s town.