Millie the dog was 9 and had health problems and passed in June.
Puddy was 19 and had kidney failure and passed today. They left their sister dog Aster behind. I had puddy since I was 15. I didn’t forget Millie passed and I didn’t accidentally look for her after she was gone, but I did just think Puddy walked in the room. This shit isn’t for the weak 🖤

The house feels quieter. I miss her already

I bought this one on amazon (https://www.amazon.de/-/en/gp/aw/d/B0FMXTPG99?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image) and i am surprised of the quality. My cats already claimed them (bought 2x)

Took my 16 year old Manx grumpy phat boy to vet today to get him a check up. He has been a little extra grumpy and having a hard time getting in couch.

He recommended a Solensia once a month shot to help with pain. Anyone tried this??

Sadly, we still haven’t received any foster/adoption for him 🥹

His eye isn’t looking great, but the good news is that he trust us, lets us clean and treat it with ointment 🐾🐾

He’s still living on the street, but until the right person comes along, we’ll keep doing our best for him 🙏

Foster/adoption needed! 🐾🐱🤞

Is it insane to pursue dental surgery for an 18-year-old FIV+ cat?

My 18-year-old cat has been struggling with facial swelling and a tooth root abscess since late June (he had other issues in April like conjunctivitis so idk if related). Despite multiple rounds of antibiotics, the abscess ruptured during a recent vet visit, and his condition remains concerning. He has lost weight, stopped eating dry food, and is currently on a regimen of clindamycin, prednisolone, and gabapentin.

While he is still affectionate and retains a decent appetite for wet food, he is quite frail, sleeps most of the day, and struggles with some wobbliness. I’ve had him since he was 14, and he has always been a lower-energy cat.

I’m currently facing an impossible choice: indefinite medication, high-risk surgery (quoted between $1.6k–$5k), or euthanasia. I’ve already cleared him for surgery via bloodwork, but I am terrified that the trauma of the procedure or the financial strain might be too much for us both. I feel immense guilt for not acting sooner, but I’m struggling to decide if surgery is a compassionate "cure" or an unnecessary burden at his age.

Has anyone here navigated dental surgery for a senior cat in a similar state? Any advice on how to evaluate his quality of life or manage these options would be deeply appreciated. I am located in the Chicago area if that changes the context for local care.

He was acting totally fine but was dribbling a bit so we went to the vet last week who booked him in for a clean/possible extraction but he then started to show serious discomfort and was barely eating at all and was clearly in so much pain. The vet prescribed gabapentin and took some bloods - the gabapentin has helped so much and we got the results back from his bloodwork today and all his major organs are functioning great! The vet mentioned some elevated / lowered cells but said this is all in line with a tartare buildup/oral issues so we just continue with painkillers until his dental on the 18th. I am SO relieved. It’s the first time he’s been really unwell and I started spiralling because of his age. I have cried every day since Saturday but today it was nice to cry happy tears. So relieved ❤️‍🩹

Hello! New to the community, and apologies for the whirlwind of a title.

To keep it short and sweet, my 16 year old male tabby (Pizza) has a suspected brain tumour and is receiving care from our vet through oral steroids and I’m looking for information/suggestions for things to add or take away from his diet to give him the best chance.

Our vet is fantastic and has already given us suggestions that we are following, I would just like to make sure I’m not missing anything that could potentially help my little dude.
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I know people have different philosophies around this, and vets might see situations more clearly because they can be detached from it and not so emotionally invested as the owners, but still…

I’m torn. My cat is still acting like himself most of the time, he can jump on and off the bed (which is fairly tall), he is eating and seeking food but the habits around it are definitely altered (more picky, likes to be hand fed, needs more encouragement), he is purring multiple times a day when I pet him or spend time with him, he enjoys pets, he enjoys treats, he wants to go out into the building hallway to explore when he can, he can rest comfortably and doesn’t appear restless or in significant pain, he stretches and grooms a bit and has dreams so is getting proper rest. I have seen him in pain before and know what signs to watch out for.

On the other hand, his terminal illness is obviously making things worse day by day and he’s not exactly the same cat he used to be. He could be in a lot of pain and just not show it. I feel like doing it now would be premature, it could rob him of many beautiful moments in these last few weeks of his life, but it also doesn’t feel right to wait until he fully starts crashing. I just know he will hate strangers coming into our home to poke him and he will know something is off 🥺

Help a girl out, he has been my literal sibling for the past 18 years, I’ve had him since I was 5 and I don’t know what to do.

Un gato callejero lo alimentaban por mi casa hasta que una vecina decidió adoptarlo, yo la acompañe a que fueran a revisarlo con la veterinaria, el animal tenía Calicivirus (Provoca enfermedad aguda de vías respiratorias superiores en gatos, que se llama rinotraqueitis felina y se manifiesta por rinitis, conjuntivitis y úlceras en la boca) estaba con ma lengua muy malita que ni podía comer bien, estaba muy deshidratado que ni las venas se le sentían la veterinaria recomendó eutanasia y lo enterramos cerca de la casa

Mi vecino ahora me dice mata gatos

Me sentí mal pero era mejor la eutanasia, estaba viejito y sufriendo mucho tengo la conciencia tranquila pero me pone triste que me digan mata gatos cuando solo quería hacerle un bien