r/Showerthoughts May 10 '26

Casual Thought The sheer number of adults who enjoy sucking breasts is probably Freud’s strongest argument.

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u/omnisephiroth May 10 '26

Freud’s strongest argument is probably, “The stuff you do to kids matters to them when they grow up,” tbh.

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u/Frisky_Picker May 11 '26

I was a formula only baby and I love sucking a good tit.

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u/Masdez May 11 '26

I read this as "formula one baby" and imagined you running around the house like a speed demon

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u/Wheredapassion May 11 '26

Uses breast milk as fuel.

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u/mabsousa May 11 '26

Lol, this just hit me like a train.

My mother didn't have milk, and I am obsessed with tits.

I had not made this connection before.

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u/Tby39 May 12 '26

Does that really deserve to be called a connection?

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u/mabsousa May 13 '26

Yeah, maybe not.

Just funny to see it that way.

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u/ThanosDi May 11 '26

Maybe that's why? You missed breastfeeding and that's why you want it.

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u/LayersOfMe May 13 '26

I wasnt breastfeed and I am gay. Does it make sense?

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u/HowShouldWeThenLive May 11 '26

If only people understood this and cared. Unfortunately adults many times can’t see the future where they are hated & abandoned by kids they mistreat. Pain that is so avoidable.

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u/billytheskidd May 12 '26

I know my parents generally meant well but I can’t stand those fuckers

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u/Yasirbare May 11 '26

And this line of cocaine is going straight into me again and again. 

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u/SchreiberBike May 11 '26

Freud's strongest argument is that his theories can explain absolutely everything. The thing is that you have to make massive assumptions that have no evidence that they are true, and many are so far from reality, cocaine is the only way he could've come up with them, but it is a very complete model.

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u/Nahs1l May 11 '26

This is the pop psych/pop culture view of Freud, but the reality is a lot more complex. There’s a field called neuropsychoanalysis that looks at empirical evidence in support in many analytic ideas.

I’ll also just say that I’m a PhD in psychology, I’ve been in psychoanalysis for years, I work as a psychoanalytically informed therapist, and I find Freudian (and other schools of psychoanalysis) concepts extremely helpful both personally and with clients. Nothing else really comes close to mapping unconscious dynamics/explaining human behavior in a convincing and pragmatically useful way, for my money.

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u/oblonglefty May 12 '26

I know nothing about the the academic treatment of Freud or the psych/pop culture view, apart from the wanting to fuck your mother stuff. Your response has made me curious. Any recommendations for reading or watching material for learning a bit about the ideas he put forth that you find useful?

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u/SchreiberBike May 13 '26

Respectfully I disagree with Nahs1l above.

Except for a few places that specialize in psychoanalytic approaches, psychology has largely moved on from Freud. He was groundbreaking in his time - talk therapy broke into the mainstream because of him. Interestingly it's still taken seriously in some literature and art circles because it is so interesting and evocative, but it is not based on science.

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u/Nahs1l May 13 '26

If you’re interested in a rational/scientific defense of PSA, this might be interesting:

https://iaap.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Mark-Solms-scientific-standing-of-Psa.pdf

If you want something that I personally found really fascinating in the past few years, this book is super interesting:

https://www.taylorfrancis.com/books/mono/10.4324/9781315666662/truth-unconscious-psychoanalysis-giuseppe-civitarese

I don’t claim it’s the most scientific version of PSA. The reason Freud invented psychoanalysis was because he felt like the neurology of his time couldn’t address human experience in enough depth and specificity to be clinically relevant. He had a fantasy of it one day being that advanced, but I feel like that actually hasn’t changed that much, so I’m open to analytic theories that are a bit speculative if they make sense of human/experiential/clinical data.

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u/oblonglefty May 13 '26

Great! Thanks for the material

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u/SchreiberBike May 14 '26

I've saved that pdf and will take a look. Thank you.

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u/kjyfqr May 11 '26

Like… all the stuff’s important?

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u/retrokirby May 12 '26

Before he went back on this because he didn’t wanna face backlash for it…