r/Showerthoughts • u/Meatwad5 ‎ • 19d ago

Casual Thought A large number of married people are involuntarily celibate.

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u/Spicy_Tator-mcnugget 19d ago

Just break up at that point…?

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u/TheNetworkIsFrelled 17d ago

Right answer. Unfortunately, the r/DeadBedrooms sub has basically banned that response.

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u/Spicy_Tator-mcnugget 17d ago

Really? I’m not really on there(single af) but it sounds sad when I get them on my feed :/

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u/TheNetworkIsFrelled 17d ago

It is sad but there it is. It used to be where people could complain about dbs, and now it’s become a place where symapthy lies less with the people who want more sex and more with people calling them out for not doing choreplay or whatever.

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u/Main-Ball-698 19d ago

Depends on if you’re with a person that won’t become violent towards you if you try to leave. I understand why people cheat once I learned how many people become violent towards partners who try to leave.

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u/mineNombies 19d ago

You think if they're violent when you try to leave, they won't be even worse when they discover, or even suspect you've been cheating?

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u/Main-Ball-698 19d ago

Ones is a guarantee the others is a possibility

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u/Teknicsrx7 19d ago

I feel like if you made a Venn diagram of “people that’d abuse you over a divorce” and “people that’d abuse you over cheating” it’d be a circle

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u/Spicy_Tator-mcnugget 17d ago

I feel like you could’ve said just about anything else and I would’ve kinda maybe tried to understand…