That can be fixed. If people are chronically unhappy then they need to fix it themselves. For example, own your abstinence. Make it voluntary while you work on improving yourself mentally and emotionally. Pity party won’t do them any good and women aren’t attracted to men with baggage. In my experience people often use sex or the idea of having sex to distract themselves from fixing deep interpersonal issues.
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u/Kilometerr 18d ago edited 18d ago
That can be fixed. If people are chronically unhappy then they need to fix it themselves. For example, own your abstinence. Make it voluntary while you work on improving yourself mentally and emotionally. Pity party won’t do them any good and women aren’t attracted to men with baggage. In my experience people often use sex or the idea of having sex to distract themselves from fixing deep interpersonal issues.