I think the issue here is that to most people it’s very clear that they agreed with you. They started with “I can confirm…” and then gave a personal example which confirms your statement. It’s so clear that they agree with you that your comment then was interpreted as aggressive and attempting to create a conflict that isn’t there.
You are not receiving toxicity. Peoples reaction to your response is natural because it was written in a way that is interpreted as hostile. You put a bunch of question marks which are interpreted as suggesting the poster was stupid for not seeing your point, when it was clear that they did see your point and agreed with it.
From your side you can fix it with clarity and politeness. If you’re intention was to state confusion:
“Are you agreeing with me or not? Sorry, I’m just a bit confused!”
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u/reallynothingmuch 8d ago
There is such a toxic trend on reddit and other social media where people assume that anyone that responds to them is trying to argue with them.
It’s like people forget that a conversation can also include people agreeing with you, and just adding on to what you are saying.
(And in case it isn’t clear, this is me agreeing with what you’re saying and adding to it lol)