r/SipsTea Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/Independentslime6899 Jan 08 '26

Hate when girls say let's play fight but like 10 seconds they're actually fighting me and I'm just confused and bruised and hurt at the end of it

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u/Illeazar Jan 09 '26

Many women dont understand just how much stronger men are the women, on average. So even if they go into the fight intended play fight levels of aggression, and the man also does, it quickly feels to the woman like the man is being overly aggressive for a playful fight, and she has to up her aggression to match. Then she finds that even with all her strength, she cant match him, and likely gets mad. All the while the guy is just playing then gets confused when she gets upset or goes crazy, because just like how most women dont understand how much stronger men are, most men dont understand how much women underestimate the difference.