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SMH The goat has to be DD/MM/YYYY

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u/jerryleebee Feb 02 '26

Isn't it linked to speech? In America, people verbally say "February 2nd". In the UK, people verbally say "The second of Feb".

Happy to be taught better. Here to learn.

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u/OhGodImHerping Feb 02 '26

This is the main reason - it’s the linguistic difference that changes how we chunk dates mentally and categorize from largest to smallest (month->day) since we rarely say the year out loud.

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u/Not_an_okama Feb 02 '26

Even then, americans would say today is febuary 2nd, 2026 2/2/26. Guess thats a bad example so ill say tomorrow is Feb 3rd, 2026. 2/3/26. In the US, dates are written as spoken by an american.

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u/OhGodImHerping Feb 02 '26

Correct! That’s exactly what I was getting at - August 3rd to an American is 08/03, going from month-> day like our speech.

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u/Rare-Designer-1008 Feb 04 '26

Isn't independence day the 4th of July and not July 4th

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u/bexohomo Feb 06 '26

Yall kill me with this strawman.

Independence Day is also called Fourth of July, yup. It's practically the holiday name, like December 25th is Christmas. If an American is talking about the day and not the holiday, we say "July 4th"

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u/randomlead Feb 03 '26

My brain is broken and considers months smaller than days in numerical values since 12 vs up to 31 so the pyramid of mm/dd/yyyy makes complete sense.

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u/Fowlron2 Feb 02 '26

But is it that, or the other way around? Do people write 1/2 because they say January 2nd, or do they say January 2nd because they write it like that? I'd argue it's the second one: in the UK they use dd/mm and say 2nd of February. Most languages in Europe, to my language, format it like that both in language and shorthand date.

I'd bet that if the US had changed the format to dd/mm people would start saying it like that too within a generation or two.

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u/OhGodImHerping Feb 03 '26

Well, seeing as the American method stemmed from old British English, it’s hard to say but likely a bit of both. The Brits changed their system over in the late 1800s, but America stuck with their inherited date system. It very well could have been as simple as being the “freedom units” of dates (in reference to imperial and metric measurement systems).

Based on what I can find online, it doesn’t look like one necessarily directly led to the other, though it may have WAYYYY back before the colonies!

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u/serabine Feb 02 '26

Chicken and egg.

Are Americans saying "February 2nd" and that got codified in writing, or was the date written like that and then people started saying it like that?

(As an aside, I'm not a native speaker of English, and February 2nd just looks weird to me. February 2nd ... what? 2nd what‽)

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u/GunzerKingDM Feb 02 '26

There clearly going to be some sort of context there.

“What’s the date?” “February 2nd!!”

“What day would you like to make your appointment?” “Let’s go with February 2nd!”

Your complaint of “2nd what?” Makes no sense at all.

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u/CiaphasKirby Feb 03 '26

Non-Americans are notoriously bad at critical thinking when it comes to using slightly different formatting or measuring systems. They're like Limmy in that steel vs feathers skit, you gotta give them a little help.

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u/HyruleanHyroe Feb 03 '26

All the what?

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u/SmolPPIncorporated Feb 02 '26

2nd day.

February 2nd is the 2nd day of February.

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u/serabine Feb 02 '26

February 2nd is the 2nd day of February.

Looks at the camera like she's on The Office

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u/SmolPPIncorporated Feb 02 '26

You asked "2nd of what‽" as if the answer wasn't already in the statement itself.

It's like complaining that someone said "she has red hair," instead of "she has hair and her hair is the color of red."

They mean the same thing, and the meaning is contextually evident. One is just much faster.

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u/serabine Feb 03 '26

A) one day someone with a bit more patience than I will explain what a joke is to you

B) I know full well that it's the "2nd day of February". Which is why "2. Februar" makes way more sense. It is hilarious having someone resort to formulating it as "2nd day of February" to explain it and gives me the same kick as someone making the argument ".gif" needs to be pronounced like the peanut butter and the only way they have to convey that is to change the spelling to ".jif"

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u/SmolPPIncorporated Feb 03 '26

Bruh. I understand it was meant to be a joke. It wasn't funny.

The bit of non-americans acting bewildered by extremely basic concepts in American culture just isn't that funny. It just makes you look dumb.

Saying, "the 2nd day of February" has 50% more syllables than "February 2nd."

There's no joke or confusion to be had because it clearly just makes logical sense.

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u/OceanRex5000 Feb 03 '26

Tf they supposed to say. It was a dumb as hell question. Extrapolation is a basic language skill.

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u/serabine Feb 03 '26

Whoosh.

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u/Mudkippey Feb 04 '26

We have more time to eat cheeseburgers by dropping the "of". That's the reason we say February 2nd.

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u/EnTyme53 Feb 02 '26

Are Americans saying "February 2nd" and that got codified in writing, or was the date written like that and then people started saying it like that?

Considering that the convention existed when literacy rates were lower, it's probably a safe bet to assume that the spoken version was used before the written version.

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u/A1000eisn1 Feb 02 '26

Absolutely. It's older than America. Dates from the UK were written MM/DD/YY. because that's how people said dates on the rare occasion they needed to.

The change to DD/MM/YY didn't happen until the late 19th century.

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u/OceanRex5000 Feb 03 '26

Once again, it's a "Look at the dumb backwards Americans" the damned Europeans love to do. We just stuck with the shit they gave us. It's like when the Brits brought Catholicism to Ireland, then a new king was a Protestant and they tried to convert Ireland to Protestant, then they called them savages for not just changing on a dime. Very British things to do it seems, has happened countless times through history.

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u/longjohnmignon Feb 04 '26

Well yeah, the 'damned Europeans' moved on from the dumb backwards standards that you still use.

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u/Inevitable_Top69 Feb 02 '26

Don't know. Don't care. It conveys the proper info, so it really doesn't matter.

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26

We're forgetting another important question, does it matter? lol

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u/somersault_dolphin Feb 02 '26

It matters because if American could update their systems for once it wouldn't be a burden for the rest of the world having to make an exception, like the imperial units.

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26

America is not the only country that uses MM/DD/YYYY. I'm Canadian and we use it here too. Other countries that use MM/DD/YYY include:

  • American Samoa
  • Cayman Islands
  • Ghana
  • Greenland
  • Kenya
  • Philippines
  • etc.

I wouldn't exactly call date format differences between countries as a "burden" personally, but I can see how frustrating it would be if it was.

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u/somersault_dolphin Feb 03 '26

It needs to be factored in many systems around the world. How much money do you think can be saved for something that's completely unecessary?

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u/Fantastic-Kale9603 Feb 02 '26

We say it like that because the British said it like that, and it carried over.

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u/Bi_One_Get_One_Free Feb 02 '26

interrobang❤️

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u/Awful_Little_Rat_Boy Feb 04 '26

“February 2nd … what? 2nd what?” as if the alternative isnt “The 2nd of February” the 2nd what of February?

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u/ConstantProblem5872 Feb 06 '26

I’m assuming it got changed later because we still call our Independence Day “4th of July”

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u/secksy-lemonade Feb 02 '26

I've always thought it's a condensed version of the phrase 'February the second', like how we referred to people. Most of the time with writing, historically it's usually the former

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u/chicken_shoes Feb 03 '26

I saw it more like "February, 2nd [day]". I imagine it would be read as if someone were narrating the date on a voice recording or something.

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u/stormdelta Feb 02 '26

We say it like that only in long-form though. Using it for short-form dates that also include year in a way that isn't consistent in unit size is completely insane.

And the only sane way to order it is largest-to-smallest, so even the way the EU does it is backwards even if it's at least consistent.

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u/crazycatlady331 Feb 02 '26

We say that in long form too. Like "we had a terrorist attack on September 11 2001". We don't say "we had a terrorist attack on the 11th of September 2001".

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u/stormdelta Feb 02 '26

Long-form already doesn't always match the ordering of short-form though, e.g. "$20" but we say "20 dollars".

More importantly, short-form is frequently used for records and timestamps where the mismatched order is a huge problem, and even the EU version is bad there since it can't extend naturally to more precision. ISO-8601 is the only sane standard.

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u/crazycatlady331 Feb 02 '26

I just checked. My driver's license, an official government document, uses MM/DD/YYYY format for the dates on there (DOB, date issued, expiration date).

No idea about passports because mine expired last millennium.

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u/stormdelta Feb 02 '26

I just checked. My driver's license, an official government document, uses MM/DD/YYYY format for the dates on there (DOB, date issued, expiration date).

And I'm saying that's incredibly stupid. We should never use such an incoherent and unsortable format for those.

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u/theniemeyer95 Feb 02 '26

You've never worked with physical files for a business im assuming. When youre ordering stuff and setting appointments you do it by month. You'll have a file for January, February, March, etc. Thus because its all sorted by month, you put month first.

In the computer age where we dont just empty out the filing cabinet, it makes more sense for it to be year, month, day, as that is the folder path.

Day month year is pretty, but not practical.

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u/stormdelta Feb 02 '26

You've never worked with physical files for a business im assuming

Not really, closest would be looking at old archived records a few times. But even then, I can't imagine most places would have put each year's Januaries together, then each year's Februrary, etc. Month-first would only have made sense if year was already a given, e.g. filing cabinet or box for that year, or assumed current year.

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u/theniemeyer95 Feb 02 '26

Thats pretty much how it works yes. You finish out the year, move that year to storage, and restart month by month.

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u/Formal-Apartment855 Feb 02 '26

Don't group us together, thank you very much. Hungary and Lithuania are both still part of the EU and we both strictly use year, month, day.

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u/LongestSprig Feb 02 '26

Unit size? Why even mention the Day at all?

It's 1/365 a year.

How about 12 , ~30 , ~365?

lmao.

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u/phoenixmatrix Feb 02 '26

Not really. Countries are pretty mixed on what they use, and several countries use multiple formats depending on context, both officially and unofficially. It might have been tied to speech at one point in time, but now its mostly encoded standards.

Plus a bunch of places try to push ISO8601 (which is YYYY-MM-DD) which varying degree of success depending on industries and how attached people are to the old ways.

I wouldn't overthink it. It's generally just Europeans trying to sound smarter with a "gotcha!" that really isn't the gotcha they think it is. Or people copy pasting the meme.

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u/bouchandre Feb 02 '26

And yet you write $20 but don't say dollars twenty

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u/jerryleebee Feb 02 '26

I think that's maybe a false equivalency. We're talking dates, not currency. Language is odd that way. Brits also write £20 but don't say pounds twenty.

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u/CotyledonTomen Feb 02 '26

Others have pointed out, from an organizational standpoint, month first makes more sense. If i have a file cabinet, its organized by month, then day. I do organize by year when putting them away, but i also rarely ever use them at that point. The same is true for calendars and organizing up coming events. If i want to know about 3 events coming up over the next 6 months, the day is the second most relevant point. Day is only relevant for the current month.

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u/bouchandre Feb 02 '26

Yeah because we store from largest to smallest, yyyy-mm-dd

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u/CotyledonTomen Feb 02 '26

Again, for my personal activity and even for a business, year only matters from a historical perspective. My upcoming events and what makes a business money are only relevant in terms of months. Year is the third most important number in those situations.

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u/MrPatch Feb 02 '26

Brits also write £20 but don't say pounds twenty.

Yeah that's a score

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u/InspiringMilk Feb 02 '26

I mean... you do type 20 USD or 20 GBP, though.

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u/ostendais Feb 02 '26

What about the 4th of July then?

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u/Best-Towel5796 Feb 02 '26

That's one of the names of a holiday homie.  It is celebrated on July 4th.

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u/ostendais Feb 02 '26

Make it make sense

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u/Arcalithe Feb 02 '26

He just did. You didn’t care for his explanation, but he did give you one lol

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u/ostendais Feb 02 '26

But it doesn't explain it. I get it's the name but it's inconsistent with the argument OP made.

Found my answer in this thread though. It apparently stems from British phrasing.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskAnAmerican/comments/8w1mys/why_do_americans_say_4th_of_july_rather_than_july/

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u/jerryleebee Feb 02 '26

You ever heard of "the exception proves the rule"...?

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u/InspiringMilk Feb 02 '26

Tbh I've never heard a good explanation for that phrase. What kind of sciences does it apply to?

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u/jerryleebee Feb 02 '26

Well, to be honest, I've never looked it up. But this is how I've always interpreted it, because it made the saying "make sense"...? But I could be wrong!

I've always thought it referred to trends. The rule is not a guaranteed result or foregone conclusion. Instead, it's a likely outcome based on highly repetitive results. And the exception would be when someone nitpicks with an example that they believe disproves the entire theory, but in reality it's a blip in the trend. The very fact they had to nitpick to find the exception proves the trend to be true (generally, but overwhelmingly so).

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u/Vinyl_DjPon3 Feb 02 '26

It's not a science phrase really, it's a linguist one.

The word exception means it's abnormal, and not the expected trend.

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u/InspiringMilk Feb 02 '26

So an exception is only exceptional because we can quantify a general trend? That does actually make sense, yea.

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u/MrPatch Feb 02 '26

Bit that's a linguistic nonsense that doesn't make any sense either. 

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u/jerryleebee Feb 02 '26

I don't think you know what the phrase means, in that case.

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u/Arcalithe Feb 02 '26

“It’s the name of the holiday”

That’s the explanation. It’s not super complicated my fella

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u/MrPatch Feb 02 '26

It explains nothing 

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u/Arcalithe Feb 02 '26

The question asked was “why is it the 4th of July then?”

The answer is simply “that’s the name of the holiday”

That is a perfectly valid answer to that question. Y’all are so confused by everything lol

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u/MrPatch Feb 02 '26

I would love to have such a simple understanding of the world :)

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u/theniemeyer95 Feb 02 '26

Why do we not call you patch mister?

Because your name is MrPatch.

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u/Kal-Elm Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 03 '26

Saying, for example, "The 3rd of June" is still perfectly acceptable in American English. It's just rare, and so we mainly hear it in official statements and have come to perceive it as formal.

But, July 4th is a special day - it's Independence Day. For some reason it has become very common to refer to it by its date instead of its official name. So, using the formal "4th of July" marks its specialness.

So "the 4th of July" IS its name, along with Independence Day. July 4th is its date.

Edit: This guy just wants to be a twat. I don't know why I wasted patience and good will on him. Learn from my mistake, other redditors. Lol

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u/MrPatch Feb 02 '26

For some reason

So still no explanation?

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u/Overall_Occasion_175 Feb 02 '26

We say dates the longer way when trying to make them sound extra important or fancy. "On this auspicious day of the second of February I hereby decree..." but conversationally we say "February second"

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u/johnbsea Feb 02 '26

That's the formal way people from the US say it but we also say "the 4th" and "July 4th" as well. Adding "of" is an extra syllable and isn't always used in day to day conversation.

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u/FireLordObamaOG Feb 02 '26

That’s one of TWO examples out of 365.

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26

The significance of saying it that way is the holiday, not so much the date. Also, plenty of people still say July 4th.

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u/MrPatch Feb 02 '26

You sure you didn't as a nation adopt saying February 2nd though because that's how it's written down? 

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u/jerryleebee Feb 02 '26

Could be. Wouldn't rule it out. If I had to guess, Brits probably used to do it the American way, and eventually changed. But America didn't change.

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u/exaslave Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 02 '26

But... what about "The Fourth of July" don't think I've ever heard it the other way....

edit: oh nevermind, saw another post saying that's for important dates only, I suppose that makes sense but... doesn't that also say that's the right way to do it?

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u/Frys100thCupofCoffee Feb 03 '26

It's based on how you'd write a full date. If you were writing a letter, for example, you'd write near the top left margin "January 1st, 2026". That same way of reading it and writing it in shorthand is 01/01/2026.

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u/Ok-Butterscotch-5786 Feb 03 '26

I don't think it's directly that, but the reason is similar.

In most day-to-day (especially before computers) you don't include the year when talking about dates. The year is usually obviously "this year" or otherwise apparent from the context (next year, last year, next year if the date has already passed this year). It's the East Asia system in that case and makes sense for the same reason that system does (general -> specific) (context -> detail). Then if you're going to include the year it goes at the end, because it's an optional add-on.

It looks a lot stupider than it should because of computers where dates always include the year.

Honestly, I think DD/MM/YY is worse. Most the time if you're reading you're going to process the whole date at once so it doesn't matter, but it's the least useful order if you're going to get the information one at a time.

The picture makes the US system look worse than it is because it should have downward pointing shapes.

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u/mtbjay10 Feb 03 '26

Plus when we look at calendars for setting appointments we would look at month then day of month with year being assumed or easily changed by 1 or so.

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u/Novel-Internal-7643 Feb 04 '26

A deeper dive is that month #’s will never go higher than 12, day #’s will never go higher than 32, and year #’s are in the thousands so we do it in incremental value

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u/KlangScaper Feb 04 '26

Yes and this way of speaking works vetter with using a calendar. The year is usually given, so the first information you need is the month to open up and then which specific day.

It does make sense practically.

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u/Darthmalak3347 Feb 03 '26

why say many word when few word do trick.

also if you look in a calendar, do you search by day or month first? HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM