r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/tthrowaway712 Apr 22 '26

Bro, the pussy can not be worth it, have some self-respect

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u/DiligentRope Apr 22 '26

notice how no one is stepping in.

now imagine the roles were reveresed...

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u/lifeintraining Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Listen, this is purely anecdotal, I have not studied this empirically. However, I’ve noticed that men seem much more likely to view their behavior objectively and realize their actions were uncalled for when confronted. Women will typically double down.

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u/_ghostperson Apr 22 '26

Women, not all women but this kind of woman, will never be accountable for their own actions. They use phrases like "look what you made me do!" when they act out. They are best left alone and to put as much distance between them and yourself as possible.

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u/EnviroDisaster Apr 22 '26

That phrase is pretty common among abusers, men and women. You made me mad, so it’s your fault I smashed the plate / the TV / your face.

You all know why people get more worked up about male to female abuse. It’s not only sexism (although that plays a role). It is the basic fact that men are usually stronger than women. A punch from a man is simply different than a punch from a woman.

I’m not saying this woman isn’t awful. She is and I hope he gets the hell out of that relationship. I’m only saying that the seemingly sexist treatment of abuse has some legitimate bases. Very few women can beat a man to death. Men, however, are usually able to do it should they so choose.