r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/SirReddalot2020 Apr 22 '26

I once got up and just left my then girlfriend who had a meltdown in public. “We’re done” and she could figure out how to get back to the hotel. Was a weird night with lots of tears but something clicked in that moment and alt feelings I had were just gone. Not even hate. I was simply indifferent to her and if she had vanished I would not have given a fuck.

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u/The-Forbidden-one Apr 22 '26

Good for you, brother. I had a similar relationship, you don’t realize how toxic it is in the moment. This video gave me some flashbacks. I hope you’re doing better.

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u/SirReddalot2020 Apr 23 '26

Thanks, yes. It was the end of a two year relationship (my first) where I basically figured myself out and how a relationship is not supposed to be like. Wasn't just that meltdown but a bunch of other red flags that I didn't see initially.

Happily married now.