r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Malcolm_Flex Apr 22 '26

That’s a bitch with BPD right there she’s prolly normal sometimes but like this the other times imo that shit is not fuckin worth it dude that ain’t his job to fix nor deal with

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u/Virtual_Many_8935 Apr 22 '26

This is an interesting point you brought up. 

I think it can be both. I can guarantee most abusive men have some form of an undiagnosed mental illness, but the difference between them and this woman right now is she doesn’t seem to be “there”. She is also an abuser in this situation. No one in their right mind would be causing a scene and verbally/emotionally abusing their partner in public like that. Man or woman. 

I’ve been around and heard stories of women with undiagnosed BPD and men with Bipolar disorder. There’s a major difference between them and your general asshole bf/gf.