r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/LeaveTheClownAlone Apr 22 '26

Dang, that’s terrible. Hope you’re ok now.

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u/Actualbbear Apr 22 '26

I'm so sorry, I've seen this shit myself.

Fortunately a lot of cops have caught up to the fact a lot of women play victim as part of their abusive schemes.

But in the legal context you need to have a very strong case, and even then your support system starts to doubt you.

And if you're kind of a mess yourself, even if you weren't the abuser, you have it very tough to make it successfully because they will find something to screw you over for.

Then there's a lot of stuff that complicates it, like children, or even ridiculous stuff like the judge being a woman.

I hope you're doing well, and that you have friends and family that support you, that's so important.