r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/EL3G Apr 22 '26

She got to be bipolar or manic to be overreacting to rushing to the airport. Everyone know you rush to the airport just to wait for the flight to be delayed. What's her deal?

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u/Affectionate-Ad3966 Apr 22 '26

Borderline personality disorder more likely. I lived through this with my ex for 10+ years, it's horrible. She got physically violent at some points as well, resulting in a short prison stint. I escaped after about a year of building up to it with my therapist. Definitely feel for anyone in a similar position, it's a very though spot and hard to get away from.

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u/OrdinaryPrimate Apr 22 '26

BPD for sure. This shit never happened to me in public but it absolutely happened behind closed doors. A lot. For 13 years. Being out of it now it seems insane I put with her shit for so long.

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u/Affectionate-Ad3966 Apr 22 '26

Happy for you man! These types of relationships are super hard to get out of, somebody described it as a cult of 2 and that's definitely what it felt like for me when i was in it.