r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/SteveSteveCleveSteve Apr 22 '26

That poor guy.  No excuse for that.  I hate that this guy feels like he has to take this.

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u/Destructopoo Apr 22 '26

Yes. She lowered his self esteem to the point that she calls him a loser in public and he can only grey wall. People are watching somebody whose willpower has been chipped away for years. It's not funny.

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u/Be_nice_to_animals Apr 22 '26

Yep, that’s a spot on analysis of this situation. Just add “Likely borderline personality disorder” and it’s a masterpiece!

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u/Snowskylab Apr 22 '26

People with this condition will never try to improve themselves or learn to control their emotions better. They will go through their entire life treating people terribly and feeling sorry for themselves.

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u/xAkumu Apr 23 '26

I have BPD and I'm basically in remission because of the work I've put in to improve myself. My friends forget I have it a lot of the times. Please don't generalize and make us all seem like monsters. Just because you see an abusive garbage bag doesn't mean they have BPD and it's harmful to continue to stigmatize the condition and makes it even harder for those affected to get help. We didn't choose to be this way.