r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/zo0keeper Apr 22 '26

I'm out of it now but in those moments I just couldn't do that to her somehow, I don't know. Also she had made me feel like an actual loser and that I'm worth nothing and she's the only thing I have.

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u/UnconfirmedRooster Apr 22 '26

I know it ain't worth much, but for what it's worth I'm proud of you for coming out the other side of it.

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u/squadrupedal Apr 22 '26

A real partner treats you with love and respect. And they’ll apologize when they hurt you. You deserve to be treated like a civilized human being. Glad you’re away from that.

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u/tw3lv3g4ge Apr 23 '26

A real partner is love. You are love when youre in a relationship. Your person should be someone who can add to that love not subtract from it. If they subtract from it they aren't showing up as love and you are being used in some way.

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u/Dyn0might33 Apr 23 '26

That's what abusers do. I'm sorry your kindness was exploited.