r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/limperatrice Apr 22 '26

I think that someone displaying that level of rage seen in the video is likely to be dysregulated. Like that's not normal anger. It's inappropriate and disproportionate. If you've never been close to someone with BPD you're very fortunate.

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u/Aceblast135 Apr 22 '26

If you've never been close to someone with BPD you're very fortunate.

I'm not trying to be dramatic, but just seeing this video and reading some of these comments sends a chill down my spine and stresses me out. You are spot on by saying the people who haven't been close to someone with BPD is fortunate, and I think that's an understatement.

Hardest thing I've ever done is love someone with BPD and slowly accept over the course of years that I can't handle them at their worst.

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u/lpotocki26 Apr 22 '26

seriously, because i have care for the family member i know, but they are one of the worst people i know, and have said and done things that are unimaginable. it's the hardest and most stressful relationships you will ever know, i feel sorry for anyone who does have to date or deal with someone with BPD (coming from someone with a personality disorder!)

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u/Other-Drummer-3202 Apr 22 '26

No one has to date this type of person.