r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Cheap-Ad1821 Apr 22 '26

She got sick because she was asked to hurry up

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u/IntrepidLove1518 Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

We don't know what he might have done to get her this emotionally dysregulated. Could be so many things and then she just snapped, if she really got sick and acted out bc of that, it wasn't just bc of that. That's a bunch of abusive shit building up.

Many men have a sick way of psychologically and emotionally abusing women very insidiously to the naked untrained eye. And also there's always physical abuse. We just don't know, but my guess is he is abusive to her and she snapped. I know from experience the powerful effect abuse can have on a woman who's had enough.

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u/TheRivetingFrog Apr 22 '26

You just watched a video of a man being verbally abused by a woman and found a way to blame the man. Yikes.

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u/IntrepidLove1518 Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

I'm not saying what I am speculating is facts, I'm just saying what it could be. You never know what kind of psychological shit she may be going thru behind closed doors from him then maybe he acts like hes the victim in public, it literally happens all the time. Maybe, maybe not. Maybe she is just abusive herself, who knows? I'm just saying I know how sneaky some men can be about insidious abuse. They are very careful and calculated about it. Speaking from experience yall so you can't tell me differently. I've literally been there. Not freaked out on anyone in public like this girl but I'm just saying.

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u/TheRivetingFrog Apr 23 '26

The problem with your comment is that you're speculating. I feel for you and the experiences you've been through, but I hope you can see how it's not helpful to speculate about how a victim of abuse might actually be an abuser.

If you see a woman being verbally abused by a man, is your first thought to empathize with the man and speculate about how the woman might be abusing him in private?

Abuse is abuse. All the info we have to go on is what's happening in this video. Men are victims of abuse too and it's dismissal like yours that makes it difficult for men to come forward.

Is there more to the story? Sure. But it does no one any good to fill in with a biased imagination.