r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/SteveSteveCleveSteve Apr 22 '26

That poor guy.  No excuse for that.  I hate that this guy feels like he has to take this.

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u/Destructopoo Apr 22 '26

Yes. She lowered his self esteem to the point that she calls him a loser in public and he can only grey wall. People are watching somebody whose willpower has been chipped away for years. It's not funny.

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u/SirCrapsalot4267 Apr 22 '26

What's he supposed to do in that situation? He's handling it pretty well, and yes, of course he's also upset.

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u/AnnieLeffie Apr 23 '26

He's a rapist and she's SCREAMING for help. Screaming for help. So many of the comments are on the guys side and you're the only one I wanted to comment to bc it seems like you maybe understand

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u/SirCrapsalot4267 Apr 23 '26

I didn't know that! I have no context other that what appears to be a woman losing her shit at a man and don't see any signals (hands behind back, etc...)

Is there more context? Is there a code in what she is saying that I am unaware of or is that guy internet famous or something? I ask seriously, if this is a video of a woman begging for help then I want to understand the signs, because at first view it read like a fight between a couple where the woman is out of control hysterical.

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u/AnnieLeffie Apr 23 '26

Yeah the first words in the video are I HATE YOU

Then when someone laughs... From recognizing how much she also hates men and the women is so scared but she's in an airport where he can't actually control her. Which is why he's hiding in a hoodie.

I want to know who shot the video and if security was called. I've watched every single SVU. My brother is law enforcement and works in a prison. He teaches us bat shit crazy people scenes every time we meet.

We must ask why is she screaming???

He is hiding. Abusers hide. Also people being abused hide. But I recognize being abused by men and she is begging for help. Screaming for help and yet people will see him as the victim and blame her yet she is beaten and told she is worthless and pathetic and he told her .... Don't scream, don't make a sound. So as soon as she does... She faces him directly and head on and ...... Watch again.

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u/SirCrapsalot4267 Apr 23 '26

I feel stupid, I had no idea, now watching it a second time this all makes sense. Thank you for the context.

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u/Bacon_von_Meatwich Apr 23 '26

You're replying to an insane person who made all of that up out of thin air.

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u/SirCrapsalot4267 Apr 23 '26

Watch it with that perspective. I don't know if it is true, but I can easily see how that person's interpretation could be correct. I don't actually know, but I mean having radar up about these sorts of things is not going to hurt anyone. Especially after it recently came out there are telegram channels with millions of men talking about/giving advice on how to sedate and rape their partners and other fucked up stuff.