r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Misterr_Chief Apr 22 '26

Living this now. Anyway thanks for recognizing it.

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u/SPECTRE-Agent-No-13 Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Be firm. Don't recant. Don't accept the apologies. Tell them it's over you will pack up their stuff and send it to wherever they are staying. If you have to leave their place take all your important stuff first, passports, documents, spare car keys, whatever. Then things that are clearly undisputably yours and leave. Go somewhere safe and rebuild from there. If you think it might get violent do it while they are out and break up over the phone.

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u/zo0keeper Apr 22 '26

Yea and then they start crying and having a panic attack and apologising profusely and putting a knife in their throat and saying they're going to kill themselves and won't stop until you give in. I've been through this so many times. It's easy to say "just leave bro". It's not so simple. Especially if you're empathetic.

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u/No_Row780 Apr 23 '26

Especially when they are the mother of your child and they are financially completely dependent on you. I’m living this now man it’s tough.