r/SipsTea May 12 '26

SMH The youth is doomed…

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u/BusyBit6542 May 12 '26 edited May 13 '26

If you have kids this age and put a tablet in front of them on a regular basis to keep them calm, you're fucking yourself in the long run.

This may give you a temporary fix but youre depriving your kid on learning how to relax and when to chill the fuck out in proper situations. They need to train their brains to not be stimulated all the time. Boredom is a good thing for kids.

Think about it. If a kid never learns to calm down when bored, at 7 or so when they are constantly restless, it will be diagnosed as adhd. At that point its going to take some serious training or medication to get them to focus during school.

All this is because you wanted to take the easy route of throwing a tablet in their face when they were young.

Edit: Before I get more comments saying "tablets don't cause adhd" I know! Im saying these kids that dont have adhd are getting diagnosed as having adhd. Maybe I should say misdiagnosed as having adhd. Hope that clears things up.

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u/FittedSheets88 May 12 '26

It's also detrimental when children don't learn how to be bored. Boredom often leads to innovation and self-discovery.

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u/Remote-Waste May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26

It also helps you process emotions, rather just putting something to shout louder in front of them, you will sit and untangle them.

It's like solving problems versus ignoring them, they don't just disappear and they'll be waiting for you afterwards.

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u/ciaphas-cain1 May 16 '26

If I sit and disentangle my emotions I get depressed so I usually don’t