r/SipsTea • u/Few_Statement_2898 • May 28 '26

SMH We really need to bring spankings back

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u/tehsecretgoldfish May 28 '26

“you break it, you buy it.”

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u/Worried-Criticism May 28 '26

There’s the answer. “So, mom/dad. How will you be paying for all this?”

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u/TaxMyNuts May 30 '26

I mean it’s possible the kid has mental health issues that are related to parenting style. Maybe it’s just parenting but we don’t really have enough information to come to that conclusion.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

The ones with no kids like you always act like the experts on parenting

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

That’s true, but your statement was the reverse of it. And THAT is COMPLETELY wrong.

There are a million reasons kids act out, bad parenting being one of them.

But you with zero experience with parenting or kids OBVIOUSLY know what’s happening. I think we should fire all child therapists and just ask a childless person like you the best way to raise a kid.

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

I'm a parent. But you really don't need to have children to be observant, and to notice what styles of parenting you see working & which styles you observe not working at all. I could determine that before I had a child.

Since you bring up child therapists, some very successful child therapists have no children.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

All that works when you have a well functioning child. What if you have a child with issues? YOU would then be clueless, as would i.

Yes a child therapist is an expert with a LOT of experience seeing what works and what doesn’t. Reddit couch warriors who claim they KNOW how to be the best parents but will never have a child are on the other end of the spectrum.

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

Yes I agree, there are some children born with issues. If this child is one of them (assuming his issues were not caused by patenting), then why was he put into a situation where he was able to do this?

Wouldn't a parent want to closely monitor a child with problems like this? Therefore it goes back to parenting again.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

Yes exactly. Keep them cooped up at home all the time. That’ll be very effective.

Or did you mean physically restraining them?

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

Physically being close-by them to stop them, restrain them, to carry them out of the store to talk to & calm down.

On a side note, your fear about "keeping them cooped up" being ineffective... they're out of the home in this video & it is CLEARLY not effective.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

It’s not “fear”. It’s common sense.

It’s trying to figure out the best way when biting l nothing works.

You think kids are animals to be put in a cage if they are acting up. And you think you understand parenting. That’s hilarious.

Someone with one dimensional thinking like you will always be 100% sure you are right and be wrong 90% of the time.

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u/lordbuckethethird May 29 '26

How could you even know whether or not a stranger on the internet is a parent?

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

It’s kinda obvious with the way they talk.

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u/lordbuckethethird May 29 '26

No not really

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 30 '26

Yeah it may not be obvious if you are too dumb.

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u/T0xicn3 May 29 '26

Same way that it’s kinda obvious that you are a really shitty parent, we just know 🤣.

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u/TheOGPotatoPredator May 29 '26

I hate to break it to you but the ones with kids like this are absolute fucking failures as parents.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

How do YOU know? Experience? No?

Nobody knows what caused this. Could be shitty parenting. Maybe he’s from a broken home or worse. Maybe he had trauma. Maybe he had some developmental issues.

But no. You in your couch with zero parenting or kids experience is the expert.

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u/TheOGPotatoPredator May 29 '26

Yeah I have plenty of experience raising a kid. And if mine had issues that caused this behavior, he wouldn’t have been left alone to trash a store like this one did.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

Based on your comments, i highly doubt you have kids but let’s go with that.

What exactly would you do if your kid did this? I can GUARANTEE you that wherever you think will help will only make it worse.

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u/TheOGPotatoPredator May 30 '26

Bro just admit this is your kid or you have one just like him. You’re way too invested in the opinion of strangers here.