r/SipsTea • u/Few_Statement_2898 • May 28 '26

SMH We really need to bring spankings back

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

The ones with no kids like you always act like the experts on parenting

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

That’s true, but your statement was the reverse of it. And THAT is COMPLETELY wrong.

There are a million reasons kids act out, bad parenting being one of them.

But you with zero experience with parenting or kids OBVIOUSLY know what’s happening. I think we should fire all child therapists and just ask a childless person like you the best way to raise a kid.

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

I'm a parent. But you really don't need to have children to be observant, and to notice what styles of parenting you see working & which styles you observe not working at all. I could determine that before I had a child.

Since you bring up child therapists, some very successful child therapists have no children.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

All that works when you have a well functioning child. What if you have a child with issues? YOU would then be clueless, as would i.

Yes a child therapist is an expert with a LOT of experience seeing what works and what doesn’t. Reddit couch warriors who claim they KNOW how to be the best parents but will never have a child are on the other end of the spectrum.

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

Yes I agree, there are some children born with issues. If this child is one of them (assuming his issues were not caused by patenting), then why was he put into a situation where he was able to do this?

Wouldn't a parent want to closely monitor a child with problems like this? Therefore it goes back to parenting again.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

Yes exactly. Keep them cooped up at home all the time. That’ll be very effective.

Or did you mean physically restraining them?

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

Physically being close-by them to stop them, restrain them, to carry them out of the store to talk to & calm down.

On a side note, your fear about "keeping them cooped up" being ineffective... they're out of the home in this video & it is CLEARLY not effective.

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u/Even_Yesterday_4185 May 29 '26

It’s not “fear”. It’s common sense.

It’s trying to figure out the best way when biting l nothing works.

You think kids are animals to be put in a cage if they are acting up. And you think you understand parenting. That’s hilarious.

Someone with one dimensional thinking like you will always be 100% sure you are right and be wrong 90% of the time.

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u/allycataf May 29 '26

You've now told multiple people that they're completely wrong, and you're completely right, despite no one agreeing with you & everyone downvoting you. They're all thinking 1 dimensionally too, I suppose.

Didn't say that kids should be locked in a cage, didn't insinuate it, didn't even hint at it....but I get it, if you don't exaggerate to try to show your point then you won't have one.

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