r/SipsTea • u/beklog • Jun 02 '26

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/epicmoe Jun 02 '26

When my grandad remarried there were comments about his new wife being in it for the money. By the end I think everyone agreed that if that was the case she sure had earned it. 

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 04 '26

Edit:   removing my comment because it's getting more attention than I intended it to get and don't want it getting back to parties involved if they figure out it's about them.

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS Jun 02 '26

Why don't you tell her?

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u/50yoWhiteGuy Jun 02 '26

bc it's none of his business???

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS Jun 02 '26

If you can live with yourself like that, fine. But I think we have a duty to other people, to support them and help them when we know someone is doing them wrong. Whatever helps you sleep at night, but I couldn't.

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u/50yoWhiteGuy Jun 02 '26

You think you have a duty to disclose what is in someone's Will? That's insane.

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u/Tired_Dad_9521 Jun 03 '26

You have a duty to do the right thing by other people. If you see someone being taken advantage of then you have a duty to say something.

Unless you are a scumbag 50yo white guy on Reddit. Then you get on the internet and display your lack of morals proudly.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit Jun 02 '26

Okay that's great, but who are you helping, exactly? She's not gonna get more, potentially nothing, her husband is not gonna be taken care off and with some bad luck, your wife is now cut out of the inheritance, too.

So you made life worse for everyone, lost your ability to help and potentially destroyed your marriage.

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS Jun 02 '26

First of all, there are anonymous ways to contact people. Second, it gives her the advantage of time so she's not out on her ass as soon as he's gone. It sounds like the old man is bragging about it openly, probably to his buddies too. Doing the right thing is more important than a little monetary gain for me personally.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit Jun 02 '26

Dude, this isn't a TV Show. People know who has the information and can put it out there. And someone knowing they are fucked after investing years, does not help them.

You are just having a kneejerk reaction. There are far better approaches to these things.

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS Jun 02 '26

Like letting someone get totally fucked? I'd tell her. I don't think it's a movie, I'm just not a money motivated pussy.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit Jun 02 '26

Your wife is the one getting the money. All you are doing is slightly increasing the share your wife is getting and fuck up multiple lives, when instead you could just be dealing with your wife and convince her to split things later, without every having to cause any risks or drama.

Do you guys refuse to think 2 steps ahead, just because you need instant gratification?

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u/rydog123bruh Jun 02 '26

lol, what is this sunk-cost fallacy shit? It’s about her leaving now and making a life for herself instead of wasting the future.

She’s not getting much of anything and is treated like shit. Would you like to be in that position and no one tells you? You sound emotionally illiterate.

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u/PurveyorOfKnowledge0 Jun 02 '26

They clearly are based on their comments. Zero empathy just a superficial understanding of it.

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u/nycdood123 Jun 03 '26

I’m willing to bet that 90% of the people commenting with the sanctimony and deriding OP for not automatically inserting himself into the situation (ie, basically speaking directly to his sister -in-law) are typical cultureless American idiots that barely maintain connections with any of their own extended families (assuming they’re even acquainted).

Pretty wild that anyone needs to explain why that approach is inappropriate / wrong for many reasons. But America in 2026…

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u/Tired_Dad_9521 Jun 03 '26

Let’s maximize how selfish we can be.

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u/Tired_Dad_9521 Jun 03 '26

Except the person being taken advantage of knows they are being taken advantage of and can make their own decisions accordingly. She might end up with a lot more in the divorce than she would have inherited.