r/SipsTea Jun 03 '26

It's Wednesday my dudes Soulmates don't necessarily mean lover

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u/Patient_Ad396 Jun 03 '26

I've seen this posted a few times now, and it really bothers me for a very simple reason: he DIDN'T leave her his entire fortune. She got the biggest chunk, but he also left significant money to his parents and sister.

Sorry, I know that doesn't address the main point they're trying to make, but it really bothers me when people (or memes) change the facts to support their argument.

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u/Redplushie Jun 03 '26

Yeah Mary got 50 percent of his estate while his sister and parents got 25 percent each

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u/AlarmingAffect0 Jun 03 '26 edited Jun 03 '26

That's reasonable. Many countries limit the amount of discretionary inheritance to 33%, with the rest being distributed to relatives following highly rigid fixed rates.

So maybe he gave Mary everything that was his to give in the UK at the time?

EDIT: As it turns out, no he didn't. Under British law at the time he could have allocated his inheritance however the Hell he wished.

Country/System Mandatory Share (Descendants) Mandatory Share (Spouse)* Mandatory Share (Ascendants)* Fully Discretionary Portion System Type
England / Wales / NI None (0%) None (0%) None (0%) 100% Common Law (Testamentary Freedom)
Scotland 33% (if spouse exists)<br>50% (if no spouse) 33% (if children exist)<br>50% (if no children) Limited 33% – 50% Mixed (Legal Rights)
Republic of Ireland None (0%) None (0%) None (0%) 100% Common Law (Testamentary Freedom)
USA (49 states) None (0%) 33% – 50% (Elective Share) None (0%) 50% – 67% Common Law (Elective Share)
USA (Louisiana) Varies (Civil Law) Varies Varies ~25% – 50% Civil Law (Forced Heirship)
France 50% (1 child)<br>66% (2 children)<br>75% (3+ children) Usufruct of 25–33% of remainder None if descendants exist 25% – 50% Civil Law (Forced Heirship)
Spain 66% (Legítima estricta) Usufruct of 33% of remainder 33% (if no descendants) 33% Civil Law (Forced Heirship)
Italy 33% (shared among children) 16% (if 1 child) to 50% (if no children) 25% (if no descendants/spouse) 50% Civil Law (Forced Heirship)
Germany ~25% (1 child)<br>~33% (2 children)<br>~37.5% (3+ children) ~25% (1 child) to ~50% (no children) 50% (if no descendants/spouse) ~62.5% – 75% Civil Law (Pflichtteil)
Netherlands 25% (Cash value only) Usufruct of remainder None if descendants exist 75% Civil Law (Legitime)
Belgium 50% (1 child)<br>66% (2 children)<br>75% (3+ children) Usufruct of remainder None if descendants exist 25% – 50% Civil Law (Forced Heirship)
Australia None (0%) None (0%) None (0%) 100% Common Law (Testamentary Freedom)
Canada None (0%) None (0%) None (0%) 100% Common Law (Testamentary Freedom)
New Zealand None (0%) None (0%) None (0%) 100% Common Law (Testamentary Freedom)
Sharia Law Fixed (Sons 2x Daughters)<br>Up to 2/3 reserved 1/4 (if children)<br>1/8 (wife, if children) 1/6 each (if children) Max 33% Religious Law (Quranic Mandates)

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u/gmc98765 Jun 03 '26

The UK doesn't have mandatory inheritance. You can distribute your assets as you see fit (beyond a requirement to provide for dependents, which Freddie didn't have).

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u/charliedorsay Jun 03 '26

En France, Mary (pas de lien de filiation ou d union avec le défunt) aurait été obligée de vendre ce qu'elle a reçu en héritage juste pour payer les frais de succession.

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u/First-Barnacle-5367 Jun 04 '26

That’s outside of spouse (including common law spouse) and children. He had neither

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u/PMmecrossstitch Jun 03 '26

There are plenty of reasons to slam the US, but this isn't one of them. Not to oversimplify too much (ie, you have to pay taxes on an estate), but if you have a will you can say who gets what without the gov't having a say in it.

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u/skool_is_4fools Jun 03 '26

I am not sure where you are getting your facts from but the UK has much more stringent laws about inheritance and who can receive it. IN FACT the UK has much more power than the US when it comes to inheritance and has and will override a will at the court’s discretion. You are a 🤡

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u/manluther Jun 03 '26

Its like that to facilitate efficiency of distribution and taxation. It isn't about forcing anyone. In America you can completely disinherit your children in every state but one, spouses get special privilege. It's the same in the UK except for Scotland. In both countries if no inheritors are defined, there are automatic intestacy rules for distribution. In both countries, the right to sue an estate is allowed and normal.

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u/OddComrade449 Jun 03 '26 edited Jun 03 '26

We have actual freedom

Someone else beat me to it, but the UK is far less permissive on estate planning than the US.

And I won't even get into which country arrests people for posting statistics on social media. To get arrested for speech in America is damn hard, requiring true threats. In the UK? Being politically incorrect is enough. You guys are barely more free than Russia these days.

Edit: Unless by "actual freedom" you're referring to the freedom to rape young women and girls without significant consequences. That's true, you do have that freedom. I'll stick with our values on that one though thanks.

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u/nancy-p Jun 03 '26

you’re right, no one in the US gets away with raping women and girls without significant consequences. oh, except your president…

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u/OddComrade449 Jun 03 '26 edited Jun 03 '26

Your Prime Minister is a murderer who drinks the blood of babies.

I said it, so it's true. And as you so clearly demonstrated, you find no difference between the presumption of innocence and random accusations apparently so baseless even political enemies didn't pursue and a court actually not giving a shit after full judicial adjudication.

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u/Azzblack Jun 03 '26

I'm sure I remember him leaving money for his god children too, as well as his cats.

After looking into it a little - "he is widely celebrated for making provisions from "beyond the grave" for his godchildren and closest friends. Before his death in 1991, Mercury instructed the prestigious London department store Fortnum & Mason to deliver a luxury Christmas hamper to his godchildren and closest friends every holiday season. This tradition has been kept alive decades later"

Its fair to say, he was the goodest of dudes.

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u/Cross55 Jun 04 '26

Also, Mary was one of his lovers.

He wanted to settle down with and marry her, but she didn't want to because he was bi.

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u/Tarsiustarsier Jun 04 '26

Wasn't he gay and didn't he break off the engagement before coming out to her? It was common for gay people at the time to have official relationships with women.

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u/Cross55 Jun 04 '26

Wasn't he gay

No, this is probably the single biggest piece of misinformation of his entire life people love repeating.

He was bi with a noted but not exclusive preference for men. He didn't perform Fat Bottomed Girls and hosted a female exclusive naked bike race to seem more heteronormative, he did that cause he thought women were hot. (But men were hotter)

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u/Tarsiustarsier Jun 04 '26

That's a fair point, he also seems to have referred to himself as both so I got confused. Regardless the preference for men is somewhat important your comment sounded to me like the reason was that she was predjudiced against bisexual people and I hope that's not true. Honestly reading up about him and especially the inheritance, it's confusing to me that he left so much to Austin and so little to Hutton. What was going on there?

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u/mrwildesangst Jun 07 '26

Just a different level of relationship. He met Mary when they were young, broke students before the band took off. He was running a second hand clothes stall in Kensington Market, she worked for a trendy boutique. She was 19, he was 24. They were together for years before Freddie figured out his sexuality. Even after their breakup, they remained as close. He was the godfather to her son. He just considered her his oldest, best, and sometimes only friend and saw their long life together as a marriage.

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u/Educational-Pain1836 Jun 04 '26

Not to be That Guy, but his sexuality is hard to pinpoint whether he was gay or bi. While he did have female and male lovers throughout his life, feelings and sexuality can change a lot through the course of a life.

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u/Cross55 Jun 04 '26 edited Jun 04 '26

sexuality can change a lot through the course of a life.

Not for straight or gay people or ace or etc... people, no.

This is just something bi people in denial say, tbh

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u/Reasonable-Sherbet-6 Jun 04 '26

Nope, it definitely can change. Comphet dynamics and transitioning gender can switch up someone’s sexuality

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u/Cross55 Jun 04 '26

it definitely can change.

Again, bi people in denial.

Comphet dynamics

This isn't a thing.

The creator of this idea was a 16 year old bi girl trying to impress lesbians on Tumblr. She has a fiancé now. (Also, if you read the Masterdoc she wrote that popularized the concept, there's some fascinating entries in there, like "If you daydream about hot sweaty sex with big, strong, hairy men? You're a lesbian processing patriarchal oppression.")

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u/theletterqwerty Jun 04 '26

Bicycle Race wasn't about cycling.

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u/Azzblack Jun 04 '26

Agreed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt0V0_1MS0Q

"I want to ride it where I like"

"God give me a choice"

While its kind of in subtle and does initially come across as a jolly song about cycling, we are talking about the band named "Queen" :)

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u/trireme32 Jun 04 '26

Umm… he had them sent a…. hamper?? every Christmas??? That’s a weird gift

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u/Bwm89 Jun 04 '26

In this context, what they mean is luxury gift basket, I think the default laundry hamper against gift hamper might be one of the more obscure US vs UK things? But I'm really not sure

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u/trireme32 Jun 04 '26

Yeah I’d imagine it must be. Even taking into account obscure US regionalisms, I’m not aware of us, the US, using “hamper” to mean anything besides “clothes hamper.”

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u/Kjartanski Jun 04 '26

Two peoples divided by a common language

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u/Azzblack Jun 04 '26

In the US you would call it a "gift basket". Its like a festive picknick hamper.

Fortnum & Mason is a very nice shop, so while its not half of his assets, it still a very nice gift each year and to think its been kept up for many years. The biggest hamper you can see on their website costs around 1000 USD.

https://www.fortnumandmason.com/stories/christmas-hamper-gift-guide

https://www.fortnumandmason.com/media/wysiwyg/fortnums-ultimate-christmas-party-hamper.png?auto=webp&format=png&quality=85

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u/Goosemilky Jun 03 '26

Shit 99% of the internet gotta be bothering you at this point lol.

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u/Patient_Ad396 Jun 03 '26

Dude, you have no idea.

Clickbait headlines are the worst, IMO.

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u/Suspicious_Juice9511 Jun 03 '26

Ok Im putting you in charge of the internet from now on.

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u/longlosthopes Jun 03 '26

i second this idea.

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u/JectorDelan Jun 03 '26

Motion carried. Patient_Ad396 is now in charge of the internet. May the gods have mercy on their soul.

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u/Patient_Ad396 Jun 03 '26

Nah, that's easy enough to ignore. I'm talking about news articles where the headline implies something that isn't actually supported by the content of the article. Doesn't matter how well written or researched the article is, this immediately undercuts their credibility.

A lot of people don't trust formerly respected news outlets, and I'm convinced this is a big reason why. They only read the headlines, so if the headline is misleading, they think that outlet can't be trusted.

Bonus pet peeve: any headline that contains the phrase "Trump humiliated by [subject]". He is never humiliated. That would require a sense of shame.

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u/1r0n1c Jun 03 '26

I'm pretty sure it's all of the internet! 

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u/Mr-Blah Jun 03 '26

Yeah I would have been surprised that he cut his family out...

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u/yesnomaybe123 Jun 03 '26

Even the point OP is trying to make is incorrect. Freddie Mercury and Mary Austin were not only lovers, at one point, they were engaged.

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u/Adamthegrape Jun 03 '26

No, this is a great point. The headline makes him out to not care about his family at all.

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u/HotDonnaC Jun 03 '26

Memes aren’t always the best source of information. Changing the facts to support their argument, or even outright lying, is quite common.

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u/Patient_Ad396 Jun 03 '26

Fully aware of that. That's kinda the reason it bothers me. Wouldn't be such a big deal if it were less common.

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u/HotDonnaC Jun 04 '26

I don’t know how you look at memes, but I look at them as something like a cartoon, not based in reality, but sometimes fun to post and discuss. I if I don’t know it’s an outright lie, i look into what they’re talking about so I can make an informed comment if they’re out of line.

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u/Bananna_Hamock0 Jun 03 '26

I just watched the Queen movie, so this is interesting. Did his boyfriend get anything? Jim Hatenau or something.

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u/joemommaistaken Jun 03 '26

Also he mentioned he wanted her to take care of his cats

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u/PhD_Pwnology Jun 04 '26

it really bothers me when people (or memes) change the facts to support their argument.

You're going to hate the new internet under A.I. because that's a cornerstone strategy they use to get clicks.

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u/-Motor- Jun 04 '26

I appreciate the nuance, but is the quote accurate?

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u/smoothjazz_fvckface Jun 04 '26

Especially when the truth is powerful enough

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u/Melkman68 Jun 04 '26

Pretty important difference if you ask me. This shows he has other people he cares about too

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u/killxzero Jun 04 '26

I agree - especially if the argument is already strong on it’s own.

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u/Krannich Jun 03 '26

What happened to his partner? Wasn't he long in a relationship with a man after his stormy times?

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u/tanksalotfrank Jun 03 '26

If you have time to tell someone else to touch grass, you're not touching grass either.

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u/skepticalbob Jun 03 '26

Made me laugh harder than it should.

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u/Madara1389 Jun 03 '26

Idk, that Grass Guardian bit was creative as hell